Jitters...

jhines4684 Posted: May 25, 2010 03:53 PM

Jitters...

I am no where near my wedding day, and my anxiety has me by the throat. Thinking of walking down that aisle makes me cry randomly.

To anybody whose gotten married; How did you over come wedding day jitters?

AngnShaun Posted: May 25, 2010 03:55 PM

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what exactly is giving you the jitters?

walking down the aisle, that you might fall, or that something will go wrong?

StaceyWill Posted: May 25, 2010 03:57 PM

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I stressed out about that a lot. Everytime I thought about seeing DH for the 1st time or even when I listened to our 1st dance song~I would start bawling. But, honestly~the day of, I was sooooooooo happy that all the stress went away. Trust me, you'll be fine once the day is here.

jhines4684 Posted: May 25, 2010 04:00 PM

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its the 'all eyes on me' part. never did well on stage and all that nonsense, and yes, being that I'm an emotional person, I will more than like bawl and ruin my make up. lol.

Its2Snappy Posted: May 25, 2010 04:21 PM

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Posted by jhines4684

its the 'all eyes on me' part. never did well on stage and all that nonsense, and yes, being that I'm an emotional person, I will more than like bawl and ruin my make up. lol.

I feel you on that one. At my Bridal Shower and Rehearsal dinner I had some of the jitters because I HATE being in the spotlight. However, I just took some deep breaths and reminded myself that I was around family and friends. These are people who are there to celebrate with you. Hopefully, that'll help calm nerves on the wedding day.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: May 25, 2010 04:22 PM

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Posted by jhines4684

its the 'all eyes on me' part. never did well on stage and all that nonsense, and yes, being that I'm an emotional person, I will more than like bawl and ruin my make up. lol.

I feel the SAME way! Not sure how Im going to handle it. Plus im walking down the aisle alone. GULP.

jhines4684 Posted: May 25, 2010 04:24 PM

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yea im walking down with my dad whom it took me til a few months ago to gain a relationship with him. kinda weird.

hopefully the idea of friends and family only will shed some light.

i cry when i'm happy too. LOL.

dfw343 Posted: May 25, 2010 05:20 PM

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I had a memosa.
I hate all eyes on me and almost fainted walking in.
My BA gave me iced tea and calmed me down.
It worked!

Lil OC Posted: May 25, 2010 06:25 PM

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Umm you are not alone. I have had several nightmares all week. Going to a dress fittting and not fitting into my dress, not being able to pay for all of our vendors, tripping down the aisle; tripping over my dress; falling down during the 1st dance.

MikesBride2B Posted: May 25, 2010 07:09 PM

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I'm taking a xanax...no joke.

ae32010 Posted: May 25, 2010 09:04 PM

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I wish I had taken a Xanax!!
But I just got through it somehow! You'll be ok.

StaceYums81 Posted: May 25, 2010 09:17 PM

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I still don't know. I thought for sure I was gonna be a complete disaster but somehow I was so relaxed and everything was jsut so great

halfbaked Posted: May 25, 2010 09:19 PM

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Posted by StaceYums81

I still don't know. I thought for sure I was gonna be a complete disaster but somehow I was so relaxed and everything was jsut so great

Same here. Though I was a mess the weeks leading up to the wedding. In fact, everyone remarked how surprised they were by how calm I was on the wedding day. I think the pressure before hand is worse than the pressure on the day of.