JLO AND BEN

I love JLO. Do your thang girl !!!

This is what I find disgusting and too bad if JLo's dirty laundry is filtering through the media. She brought it on herself. In a way bad publicity is good publicity.
How on earth can you be married to one man then divorced what 9 months later? and engaged with someone new 3/4 months later??? Very fishy... seems like she was doing the run around. The person who gave her the flowers at the opening of Madre's was apparently Ben. She was still with Chris at the time.
She isn't the only woman in Hollywood I have no respect for. I can give you a long list of them. She just happens to be the only person people are talking about right now. She has saturated the media too much. Since Britney & Justin, Tom & Nicole are splitville, paparazzis have no other couples to take pics of.

You know who I do applaud as a married couple in Hollywood? Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson. And surprisingly, Ozzie and Sharon. Yes they are wacky but they are real. Michael J Fox and his wife are amazing. Christopher Reeve and his wife too. Who knows if any of these couples will last. But these couples have had their fair share of ups and downs. Not a 4-10 month relationship and call it a marriage.

Wanda VERY well said!!!!!

I think that's pretty judgemental considering you don't know the details of anything. Who knows why her marriage ended - or why they even got married in the first place? Relationships aren't easy - they can't be any easier just because you're loaded and a moviestar - I would imagine it would be worse. All your faults and trumped up rumors are our there for the world to see. I don't think anyone can define love - it goes way beyond a feeling or an emotion - so how could it be one simple formula for the world to follow?

Heck, after being with someone and living with them for a total of almost 5 years...we broke up (for the umteenth time) and within a month I started dating my FH - and it's been 6+ years now...and I fell in love with him 'pretty quickly'. Good thing *I* wasn't in the public eye - I might have been labeled too.

Colleen, I totally AGREE with you!

Was it my imagination or was Ben talking in a Rosie Perez accent in the beginning of the interview?

I think they make a really cute couple, even though I'm tired of seeing them everywhere.

i liked the both of them individually, but since jlo took my man ben- i cannot forgive her!

Even though I think they are cute together, I have to say that they both sounded like morons. Neither one could put a sentence together without saying 'you know what I mean?'

They are like the poor man's Hepburn and Tracy.

He's still hot though.

Did anyone notice when Diane Sawyer was asking when the wedding would take place that JLo's foot was tapping a mile a minute? She seemed very nervous, and when Diane asked what kind of speech Matt Damon would make she was like the best man makes the speech. Hmmmmm do you think she dislikes Matt

I think they seem pretty cute together. He is HOT, and I normally think she is gorgeous, but I don't think she looked that great last night...I think it was the hair. (ALTHOUGH, I would be happy to look like her on her very WORST of days )

Ok, so I saw this post at work today, and only read to see that this was airing at 10pm tonight. Yeah, would've been helpful to look at the date the thread was started!!! I totally missed the boat.

I like Ben, and I give her much respect for putting herself out there and making it in Hollywood & in the music industry. It is as if everything she touches turns to gold.

Stacy- Matt called Ben and asked him to post-pone his wedding. That's when j.lo went on a rampage and told him to stick up for them to his friends. She then felt he wasn't ready, and they did not get married last Valentine's day. (obviously) His family hopes the whole relationship is for publicity. Don't ask me how I know this.

I do wonder though, with 2 husbands behind her & Benny Medina being thrown to the 'curb' to use the j.lo slang..... if she doesn't really just use people to get what she wants, and then, they're gone?

It's not her voice that's so annoying, it's the way she butcher's the English language. She doesn't speak intelligently at all.

(Who knew I would have so much to say about them) Love him- he's a hunk!