julz33

What is the to be doing at this very moment?

She just posted over on NWR ...

JULIE GO TO BED AND GET A GOOD NIGHT'S SLEEP!!!!! (not that I was on LIW at 1AM the morning of my day or anything)

I just walked in from the RD.
Just as we were walking out the door to go to the dinner the phone rings. It was our officiant telling us he can't make it because he is sick, he has someone else coming. To make a long story short my FH and I got in touch with this new guy to go over the ceremony so we were late to the dinner.
Then I came home to mystery flowers delivered. They are from 1800 flowers and the barcode and everything is ripped off. The was a card taped on with my name on it, but there was nothing written in the card. My mom called trying to find out who it was from but they wont tell us.
They are not from my FH.
I have a feeling they are from someone in my dad's family (who I don't speak to)
or my ex-BF...
Anyone else would leave a name!

OMG

try not to stress too much julz - it will be ok
the flowers are strange - why wont they tell you who sent them?

Rev. Tom McCormick? Seriously? I don't know if you're still checking this for replies but he married me and my dh 7 years ago! We liked him! Unless there's another Rev. Tom McCormick..

Happy Wedding Day!!

yea julz!!!


its here!!!! OMG OMG OMG!!!


whhoooo hoooooooooooooooooooo

everything is going to be wonderful!

That is really strange about the flowers Julz!!! I hope you are still sleeping & getting well rested for today! Enjoy every moment & congrats

Hello everybody!
Today is my wedding day!

here is a brief story. my parents got divorced while I was in my senior year of highschool. My dad who was like 'the father of the year' before this just basically deserted me, my sister, and brother. My sister and I were old enough to handle it but the hurt he caused my brother is unforgivable. My dad was best friends with my brother. He was his coach for all sports, and even as my brother got older and played school teams he was always there. They were always doing somethihg together whether it was golf or vidoe games. Then when he moved out we never heard from him unless I arranged something, and plenty of times he wouldn't show up woth my brother sitting there waiting for hours. My brother went through a rough time and I am very angry at him for it. The final straw is when he told my brother he was coming to his highschool graduation and never showed up.
In the meantime he totally screwed my mother... I don't even want to go into all the details but basically he stoppped working, became obsessed with the internet, met a woman from Kansas, married her, now lives in Kansas, lied under oath and faked a bankrupcy and plays nasty games with us all. I have been cursed out a few times to the point of tears and lied to all the time.
His family is very strange and is assisting my dad with his evil plans. I told them that anyone who has anything to do with my dad is not being a part of my life. Ever since that day they have been harassing us. I have a feeling the flowers are from them because they are angry they are not invited to the wedding. My aunt works are the same place as my mom and has been attempting to cause her trouble this whole week. WHATEVER leave me alone freaks!

Don't worry about any of that today!! Families are crazy... I am sure I will have some of that on my day with my dad's family..
Anyway... relax and enjoy your day.. I hope you have an amazing night.. The weather is PERFECT!!!!!!!
HAVE FUN!

ACK!!

Okay but now that you got that out ... put it out of your mind as best you can for the day!!!

Aww Julz...I totally can relate to your situation with your dad...mine messed up my bro so badly that now my brother blames my mother for it...yes it sux and I am so saddened by it beyond belief...family always causes problems in one way, shape, or form...USE these as examples to make your marriage and your own family even better!!!

BUT

This is YOUR wedding day. Forget about all the bad in the past, because you are about to start a wonderful future with your FH!

I wish you the best day ever today!!!!!!

Yes but now I am afraid of them showing up!
Unfortunately my aunt works at the same place as my mom and people talk.. so she knows where and when

And I also have this ex-GF from when I was 15-16 who STILL hasn't gotten over me.
If its not my dads family it is def. from him!

Aw, Julz! I wish everything was going more smoothly for you.

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Posted by brooklynbridezilla

Julz, is it too late to give your hall a list of those invited and make sure no unwanteds show up?

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Everyone knows to be on the lookout for them My hall has the list.

Hey Julz!
Happy wedding day girlie!

I know you are going to have the most beautiful day. It is gorgeous outside. So what time do you start getting ready and everything? This is so exciting. I can't wait to see pictures!!!