just a thought

florezpeeps Posted: Jul 15, 2008 02:26 PM

just a thought

during the wedding planning, do some of you feel like you can't have expectations? bc the let downs make you want to kick yourself for having had any to begin with

jennandrolo Posted: Jul 15, 2008 02:39 PM

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i learned after the wedding that i shouldnt have had expectations but that was mostly with how much $$ we would get back as gifts. we made so many plans and it all went *poof* cuz we got waaay less than we expected...but other than that, the expectations i did have for the wedding went according to plan. alot of things can go wrong, especially the day of and you just cant stress it. i remember thinking before the wedding, 'if this goes wrong, my whole day is going to be ruined', we had a few minor things happen but they just didnt matter at that point.

Mici n KC Posted: Jul 15, 2008 02:40 PM

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I try not to set myself up for these high expectations. This way if something good happens, I'm happy. If it doesn't at least I can say, 'Well, I expected that to happen.'

Butterfly123 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 02:41 PM

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Thats how I am in general. Not just wedding stuff. Its a horrible way to feel.

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Jul 15, 2008 02:44 PM

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i dont know if you are talking about something specific, but make goals, rather than expectations (if that makes sense).

The good thing is that on your wedding day, if little things go wrong, you either dont notice or dont care.