Just feeling sad................

Awwwh! DOnt worry your wedding will still be wonderful! The same thing has happend to us. We are under by two. So many people responded no. I was so upset about it. Enjoy your day.Its about you and FH. ANd your day will be beautiful!!

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Posted by jonsgirl04

Awwwh! DOnt worry your wedding will still be wonderful! The same thing has happend to us. We are under by two. So many people responded no. I was so upset about it. Enjoy your day.Its about you and FH. ANd your day will be beautiful!!

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Thank you! We are under by two too! Which isnt alot but I was planning on 150 not 130 but I guess its about having friends and family around you not some randoms!

I know how you feel, I had thought that a lot of my very close friends from school (OOT) would RSVP yes and so far almost all of them have said NO. Most of FH's friends have not rsvp'd yet but they are all OOT and he's expecting almost all NOs as well now.

I don't think we'll be going under our min, but my mom orig thought we'd be way way over our min and now it looks like we'll just make it by a handful.

Don't feel sad. You will have a beautiful wedding!!! I have a lot of OOT guest who cannot make it, at first I was disappointed but what can you do

Dont be sad...to be honest the nicest weddings are the ones that arent overcrowded...Yours will be beautiful....:

We were only 1 over our minimum, and a couple just cancelled, so now we are under by 1. I know how you feel.
But, I am happy about who is coming, and I did want it to be small and intimate, so make the best of it. It will be beautiful, and those there, really want to be there.

Quick question, do we, the bride and groom count towards minimum?

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Posted by MsPotterhead

We were only 1 over our minimum, and a couple just cancelled, so now we are under by 1. I know how you feel.
But, I am happy about who is coming, and I did want it to be small and intimate, so make the best of it. It will be beautiful, and those there, really want to be there.

Quick question, do we, the bride and groom count towards minimum?

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Thanks everyone. I have been counting us towards min b/c we have to pay for our din!

Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this! I know this is last minute and might be tacky, but do you have a 'B' list? Maybe people you wanted to invite but couldn't b/c of whatever reason?

Or, you can invite some LIW ladies.

Your day will be beautiful no matter what! It's going to be the best day of your life!!!!!

You will not notice!!! it is a table or 2's worth of people. You will be wrapped up in the moments of the day!!!

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Posted by jaep129

becuase now we will go under our min. I totally thought we would go over it plus some. Well first I thought we invited 190 and it was really 160 ok thats fine. our min is 125 and we are just under by one or two but still. I feel non of his family is coming and people who I thought were my friends are not. Just pissed and sad!

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I know it's not always easy to really believe what I'm going to say, but All the people who truly care about you and FH WILL BE THERE and your wedding will be perfect and the way it was supposed to be. For a while I was very upset that FH's family (he isn't all that close to them) will probably not come...now I'm just happy that we will have all the people who are truly making the effort for us and are there for us everyday. Of course I think it's my age and that I realize that life is too short to worry and stress over all the little things.

I went to a wedding with 80 people once and it was FABULOUS. Your wedding is going to be awesome.