from my FBIL saying he is stealing him the weekend of july 31st! ok so ive prepaired my self for the bachelor party! I didnt even think it was going to be that bad because my FH all he wants to do is go to a Nascar race! We go to races all the time! its basically drinking eating and nascar all day! fine right!
well looks like FBIL has more plans than just nascar!! My FH does not want strippers! and there will prob be there now!
I told him to bring him back in one piece and he said he cant promise that, but he will be back together by the wedding! what?!
another vent... why does FH get a whole weekend when all he wanted was one day!! all i wanted was a weekend thing and im getting a night! boo!!!
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FH bachelor party is next weekend, I have no idea what is going on for mine, but it is not until the end of July, I got a night, I think his is 2! It is unfair, but our girls have to pay for so much more than the guys, so the guys hae more money to spend on bachelor parties!
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What's really sad is that... usually the strippers aren't even for the bachlor... they are usually for the bored married men who will be attending the party... oh and of course the single guys. Usually the groom doesn't want them...but they end up with them because of the other guys going to the party. So stupid.
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try not to worry just one wekend spent it with your girls and have fun! ignore, ignore ignore .. not worth your time or energy!
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Posted by KerriJohnS
What's really sad is that... usually the strippers aren't even for the bachlor... they are usually for the bored married men who will be attending the party... oh and of course the single guys. Usually the groom doesn't want them...but they end up with them because of the other guys going to the party. So stupid.
OMG I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!!!
Our B-party is this weekend and FH is going to AC with the guys so I am preparing myself for blocking out the images in my mind
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Posted by KerriJohnS
What's really sad is that... usually the strippers aren't even for the bachlor... they are usually for the bored married men who will be attending the party... oh and of course the single guys. Usually the groom doesn't want them...but they end up with them because of the other guys going to the party. So stupid.
agreed... its really retarded... thankfully mine and fh's is the same weekend so i will be too obliterated to care about whats going on! guys can be soo stupid when it comes to these parties
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try not to think about it! i know easier said than done!! my FH bachelor party is the weekend after his bar exam he is going to ac, i have said i dont care what you are doing! all i know is i dont want to hear crap after! i also think brothers just try to be funny by making brides think dumb stuff because they think we are losing our minds already so they add fuel to the fire!
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mine is the weekend before!! if it was the same weekend at least i would be having fun myself and not even thinking about it!
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Truthfully I think brides get things crazy in their head more than what actually goes on. If you FH is not that type of guy then even if they have stripers he will be just fine.
My DH went to Ocean City for his BP and they played golf and drank and the worst that happened was they talked to local girls in the bar.....I even gave him the ok for strippers and lap dances.
So if your FH isnt that type of guy then stop stressing and who cares if the other guys with him go nuts.
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you guys are right! it will only be worse if i make a stink about it!!! the way his friend and family are the crazier i get, the crazier they try and make me! im going to show them all how much im ok with this!
ill just invite all the girls over for a girls night at our apt! too keep my mind off the dirty strippers!
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My FH isn't into the whole stripper thing but his friends sure are and I just know what is going to go on. The good news is I trust my FH with all of my heart, the bad news is the thought of some sk*nky girl all over him makes me want to vomit! Im going to try my best and ignore it, every brides gets through it i guess, but it will definitely be a night I will spend with my girls to keep my mind off of it.
