Just got into a fight

Ever feel like you're making a mistake?
We just had a fight and my feelings are so hurt.
He said things that make me think.... Is this gonna work?

awww, hun everyone fights, and with all the stress of planning it's bound to happen. As long as you can work things out before the wedding, everything will be fine. Hang in there

we all fight...im sure what he said was all out of anger! trust me Alex and i have said some real heart breaking things......i dont mean it but it slips out! Im sure he will come to his senses and say hes sorry! Weddings are suppose to be the best time of your life but yet it is soooo stressful!! :)

give him time...im sure it will all work out!

Awww sweetie...I'm sorry to hear that!!! Sometimes words just slip out of our mouths and at the end we didn't even mean it! To tell you a little story - FH and I got into a little 'talk' on Friday and he said 'that's why people don't get married at our age (which is 24)'. Of course, being the girl that I am, I got really sensitive. To him, he was just stating the fact but to me, it felt like he was implying something like 'we shouldn't get married now'. I'm sure he didn't mean any harm.
Feel better!!!!

Honey, I'm sorry but you guys are not always going to see eye to eye and there are going to be fights, but the best part of fighting is making up

The thought has crossed my mind if this is what I am supposed to do but it never lasts long. I would say if you think that way more than once or twice and if it lingers, maybe you need to talk to someone about your feelings and see how it sounds out loud. I did that with my Mom and I realized that I was just scared of such a big commitment. I dont know if this makes any sense but I promise you will figure it out!!! I am sorry you feel this way right now.

sweety everyone says things when they are in that kind of stressful moment i am sure it was not really meant. not to worry

everyone fights! we all say things that we regret! We never mean to but we end up hurting the ones we love most...both of you need to cool off and talk it over...it will work out...then you can get to making up!!!

Fights can be scary, but everyone has them. As long as you feel completely comfortable and at ease once they are resolved, I think it's a healthy thing.

Thanks everyone!!!! Things are so much better.
You're right this is a very stressful time, but I hate it. I can't wait till wedding is here so we can celebrate!!!!

DH & I got into fights every single week during our engagement. We've been married for over 2 weeks now (and have been living together) and we've only had one fight since we've been married, which was during our HM. DH wanted to eat Japanese, so we tried out this restaurant that was hibachi like with 12 people to a table. Not only was the seating arrangement uncomfortable for me, but the food was horrible: bland, small portions (though who'd want more of it!) and it took forever to be served. I wanted to leave, he wanted to stay, and we ended up having soup and salad before we threw in the towel (he was

) Sorry to rant, but moral of the story is, the engagement period was very hard for me and very hard for lots of other people. It got to the point where I thought to myself, 'if this is what being engaged is like, how the heck are we going to be after we're married AND sharing a one bedroom apt?' Being married for me is MUCH better than being engaged. Good luck and try not to let wedding stress get the better of you.

FH and i fight over things now because we're stressed from the wedding. but it doesn't mean we don't love each other. i'm sure things were said that weren't meant and were just said in the heat of the moment. your wedding is coming up so i'm sure it was just stress related. smile!