just got off the phone with FH. Now does anyone else do this...
PrincessConsuela
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Do you find yourself saying i hate him after you get off the phone with him or have a conversation about wedding stuff. i find my self consently doing this. I mean i really dont hate him but some of the comments he makes good and bad get on my nerves. I really just want him to agree with me that is all. We are so stubborn. omg it is not even funny
nov04LIbride
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In a word....YES! I want it my way. I stopped asking his opinion actually, because I only wanted him to agree with me anyway
Bunnymonkey
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Sorry, but I have to say this -
Hate is a very strong word. I am sure you do not hate him, but using that word over and over (even casually) as it relates to the love of your life is a pretty quick way to form some negative associations and feelings towards him.
FLaCaTaCa
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Not hate. I don't like that word.
I do say stupid things like: 'Ugggghhhh!!' 'So annoying!!!!' or 'What an a$$'
jozieb0925
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I get that way with my fh sometimes..it's hard compromising and agreeing on things..it takes work..I use the word hate loosely at times, as well.
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Awwww, I'm sure she doesn't hate him. It's just a figure of speach. I'm sure we all use it when we are angry, at whomever.
I have it easy, he tells me to do whatever I want, as long as I don't drag him around, lol
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Grrrrr....I get so frustrated with Michael too. I love him, but I can't take him some times. I hear you.
HearzBellz
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yes, I will call him a jacka$$ after almost every single conversation. He has admitted to me that on his end he calls my physcho
Re: just got off the phone with FH. Now does anyone else do this...
i did say in my origional post that i do not hate my FH. I love him or else he would not be my FH. thanks ladies im just a little frustrated.
jozieb0925
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Posted by HearzBellz
yes, I will call him a jacka$$ after almost every single conversation. He has admitted to me that on his end he calls my physcho
I get called psycho too!!
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Posted by FLaCaTaCa
Not hate. I don't like that word.
I do say stupid things like: 'Ugggghhhh!!' 'So annoying!!!!' or 'What an a$$'
Yup, that's me too.. He drives me nuts! We are still 'debating' the whole white flowers thing..urgh!! He is soooo funny.. annoying.. but funny!!
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buckles
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Oh MY! I Love this thread! I thought I was the only one! I feel like it is a double edge sword! I really want to include him but on the other hand it creates such tension when I do! AH!
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My guy and I have this alternate we use...we Say 'I LOATHE YOU' even to each others faces but since we came up with it together it lightens the mood and we start giggling.
Actually it came about because I quietly said I love you ' to him and he got all upset...i asked whats up and hes like 'Well i loathe you too!' ...it was one of those silly moments and it stuck.
HearzBellz
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Posted by jozieb0925
Posted by HearzBellz
yes, I will call him a jacka$$ after almost every single conversation. He has admitted to me that on his end he calls my physcho
I get called psycho too!!
sophie78
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No....
My FI is really easy to deal with.
Julestrd
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YES FH frustrates the crap out of me sometimes. And what made me feel bad is we met with the DJ tonight and he said you guys putting on the boxing gloves lately, we both laughed and said yes. He said we see it all the time.
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I'm in the same boat at Queens Bride. My FH tells me to do whatever I want, as long as it makes me happy (which translkate into do what you want, just don't make me trek all over LI visiting vendors - haha). The only thing he cares about now is the food ansd the band. I love that he is so easy, but sometimes i have to beg for an opinion!
February05
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i get soo annoyed when FH will put up a fight w/ me, but then i get more annoyed w/ him when he'll go along w/ want i want just to shut me up.... i'm like 'why are you saying yes if you dont mean yes' HAHA he can't win either way....
btw... in repsonse to your question,,,, our new nick name/ pet name for each other is 'A-HOLE!'
Dooodles
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Oh how I could write a novel on this subject!!! He irritates the hell out of me almost every day right now. But he's irritated me for 17 years (as friends) so it's not like anything else is new. I think it's all normal and we've sounded like an old married couple even before we were a couple. Nag, nag, nag but with much love!
