Just had a major meltdown-ugghhhh

In the last two weeks the stress has finally gotten to me and I finally cracked. I feel so bad, as my poor FH is sick of hearing it. Over the last 14 days we have found out:
His parents will not pay for the rehearsal dinner
My sister(MOH) will not give a speech (I gave one at her wedding)
My sister and mother will not be getting ready at the hotel with me. (I got ready with her)
His sister wants to wait until March to order her and her daughters dresses (the wedding will be two months away)
His brother (best man) not really stepping up and putting together his bachelor party.
UGGGHHHH!!!!!!!! I FREAKED OUT! And also said I was sick of his and my family, but prob. should not have mentioned his-he has been quiet since I got so mad

Take deep breathes. everything will come together as planned!!!!!!!!

have a glass of WINE!!!!!!

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Posted by ruzi777


have a glass of WINE!!!!!!

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Completely agree!

Buttheads!

I can see why!!! You are dealing with a lot of stressful things, You are human! We all have our breaking points. I am sure that your FH know that all of these circumstances are making you sad... Breathe, remember you will get through anything that life tosses at you, and it is ok to have a meltdown or 2. I have been there!!! (more often than I'd like to admit) I find that when things are flying around me in a whirlwind situation, I just have to stop and standstill...when Everything is done spinning and the dust settles, then I can see what needs to be cleaned up.

Just breathe, be still.....and here is a

IT will all come together-try to find something to calm you down-maybe a hot bath by yourself...I cant say I know what you are going thru but so far I would have to say I will probably be in your position soon.

Have you told htem all your feelings on this? I would try to talk to them and let them know that you are hurt