Just in case stuff starts a brewing...

People come on here looking for opinions....you want the thoughts then you have to accept them all. Please, if you're looking to hear what you want then don't ask *sigh* why do girls get so catty!?

Lovely ladies of 2011, I say we don't get caught up in the drama and remain the fabulous folks that we are!!!! (how's that for a sentence with alliteration hehe)

I'm all for being fabulous

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Posted by Bride2011

Holy cow! If I ever feel like being attacked and belittled for my opinion please remind me to post on the 2010 boards. Why is everyone so sensitive on there? Aren't we all entitled to our opinions?

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Them's fightin words

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Posted by JLWSJC

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Posted by chreesta

Haha. Definitely a good find Jessie.

I any case, I like my outdate venue

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UGH, it was a poor choice of wordiing... but everyone does that now and then..., I'm sure she super regrets it now, I don't think it deserved the response it got...

although the buggy and butter churning comments were kinda funny, lol

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I think the comments are funny, because they're not nasty.

I don't even know if it's a poor choice of words, because like I said I have been FLAMED just for saying I wanted a hall with a 'north Shore Feel' That wasn't knocking the south shore, but I didn't want that beachy kind of wedding. When someone asks for a beachy place, is it knocking my RH? Not at all.

Also, I've been to plenty of halls where I felt some of the decor was 'dated' but tat doesn't mean it's not a great hall. To each his own, Obviously if the bride is thinking of booking FH she doesn't think it sux

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Posted by HSsweethearts

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Posted by JLWSJC

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Posted by chreesta

Haha. Definitely a good find Jessie.

I any case, I like my outdate venue

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UGH, it was a poor choice of wordiing... but everyone does that now and then..., I'm sure she super regrets it now, I don't think it deserved the response it got...

although the buggy and butter churning comments were kinda funny, lol

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I think the comments are funny, because they're not nasty.

I don't even know if it's a poor choice of words, because like I said I have been FLAMED just for saying I wanted a hall with a 'north Shore Feel' That wasn't knocking the south shore, but I didn't want that beachy kind of wedding. When someone asks for a beachy place, is it knocking my RH? Not at all.

Also, I've been to plenty of halls where I felt some of the decor was 'dated' but tat doesn't mean it's not a great hall. To each his own, Obviously if the bride is thinking of booking FH she doesn't think it sux

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I just meant poor choice of wording in the context of posting on these boards. I've been FLAMED also for seemingly uninflammatory comments myself, so rather than cause myself headaches, I think twice before I post (usually). I don't think I should have to, but reality is, you know? Everyone's looking for something different, shouldn't be a big deal but it winds up turning out to be.

People should respect other people's opinions.. but I guess we should all respect each other's sensitivities, extreme as they may be? I guess? .

It's simple. I have absolutely nothing to do at work so i sit here and read everything!

EDIT: case in point. I just realized I am well over 3000 posts. Had no idea!

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for real more drama!
Everyone has an opinion. I just dont take things to literally!

Outdated will be vintage soon, so actually you are setting trends.

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Posted by jenn_eric

People come on here looking for opinions....you want the thoughts then you have to accept them all. Please, if you're looking to hear what you want then don't ask *sigh* why do girls get so catty!?

Lovely ladies of 2011, I say we don't get caught up in the drama and remain the fabulous folks that we are!!!! (how's that for a sentence with alliteration hehe)

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ITA Not that serious....heres a toast to no drama for the 2011brides lol

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Posted by Bride2011

Holy cow! If I ever feel like being attacked and belittled for my opinion please remind me to post on the 2010 boards. Why is everyone so sensitive on there? Aren't we all entitled to our opinions?

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LOL Better becareful before you get attacked for saying this LOL

HAHA! I don't take anything personally, it's all good to me. I'm not a fighter, I'm a lover, and I'm here to plan wedding dammit. No drama for me!!!And I love Ilana, she gives great advice!!!

HAHAHAHA.

Jessie, thanks for keeping us updated on all the drama.

I LOVE IT!!

I totally want to put my two sense in but I'm better than that..... I just love adding more drama... HEHE

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Posted by Hellosailor11


Outdated will be vintage soon, so actually you are setting trends.

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I like the way you think!

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Posted by Bride2011

HAHA! I don't take anything personally, it's all good to me. I'm not a fighter, I'm a lover, and I'm here to plan wedding dammit. No drama for me!!!And I love Ilana, she gives great advice!!!

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Awwww

I try to come down here and give some good advice, you are all where I was so why shouldn't I impart the wisdom I gained since then?

i never intended to cause drama..just makng jokes

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Posted by gina409

i never intended to cause drama..just makng jokes

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and a good one at that

i think that's where most of the drama stems from. People making an obvious joke and someone not realizing it's a joke and then they say something back and then it all blows up from there.

That's when I sit back and watch LOL

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Posted by Panamasweet

you have to be so careful of how you word things on here. I double and triple think about how i am going to say something before i do...

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ITA!