last night i found out my friend of 4 years and my bm, has started doing drugs after being clean for 3 years. and she told me she was unable to be in my wedding. omg i was freaking out. i honestly don't know what im nore mad about. thefact she started doing this shyt or her not being in my wedding...
regy_k
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wow.... so sorry
Rosalind_75
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with something like this try really hard not to think of the wedding
just hope that she can get back on the right track
soontobecruz
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Wow I am so sorry. I am sure this is a difficult time for the both of you. I understand your frustration but your friend has a problem. I am not necessarily say 'be there for her', but maybe you both should just get some distance until the immediate reactions wear off a little. Then confront her in a calm manner.
I' m sorry....
Nichole2010
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wow, thats awful! im so sorry!
struggling with drugs is probably a really hard thing to go through & unless you've been down that path, you can comprehend what its like..
if i were you, id just be there for her...help her get back on the right path...dont worry about her being a bm at this point...help her out & if she cleans up then im sure shed love to be part of your wedding again
JenBill61210
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sorry to hear. i hope she gets some help and focuses on her recovery.
Jna2010
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sorry to hear this, i hope she stops before she gets back into old habits