Just Saw My First True Love

Original post by nylisa

Jul 29, 2004 02:24 PM

I was coming back to my office from lunch when my first true love walked right past me. I could not believe that it was him. I did not have the guts to talk to him because I did not think I looked good enough for me to talk to him. I was that way when we were younger too. I had not seen him in 6 years. We never dated but were just friends but I always had the hots for him. I love my FI and I am so happy to be his wife but Danny will always have a special place in my heart.

Do you guys feel the same way or am I just crazy?

sweetadeline Posted: Jul 29, 2004 03:50 PM

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My first true love is coming over for dinner tomorrow night! I don't feel anything for him whatsoever, except a kind of nostalgic-for-high-school fondness. I still like him, though.

shelly3950 Posted: Jul 29, 2004 04:32 PM

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I have one of those. He is still a friend of mine- but we are not as close. He lives in London (always has lived somewhere in the UK) and as we got older, and especially since I have been with FH keeping in touch has been harder and less of a priority.

I always thought I would marry him, then a few years ago (after I met FH) I realized- we make good friends, but if we got together, we would kill each other- too similar in all the wrong ways.

myasmom Posted: Jul 29, 2004 07:36 PM

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Yep this is the year of 1st true loves getting married. Mine is getting married in October. Its funny when I announced I was getting married he said he and his GF were too.

He made up this story of them buying a second house nad how well he was doing..mind you we spoke a few months back and he had gotten fired so I know the house story was BS.

I knew something was up when he said he had waited for me for years and I never came so he was moving on..so sorry his FW didnt hear that part..would you want someone who is marrying you just because choice #1 didnt come knocking?

matron Posted: Jul 29, 2004 09:54 PM

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I feel this way about both of my past real serious boyfriends. Especially my college love bc I thought for sure we'd marry. I think it's natural.

hbradio Posted: Jul 29, 2004 10:03 PM

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I recently talked to someone I went out with for a very long time, was DEEPLY in love with, was friends with for years before we got together, and he broke my heart.

We email each other twice a year or so but never mention significant others. He IMed me to tell me that he heard there was something special and exciting going on in my life and that he was so happy for me. (a professor we are both still in touch with told him I was engaged). So we got to talking and I asked him where he was living and he told me in Rochester with his GIRLFRIEND! If he didnt know that I was serious with someone, he would have just said 'Rochester'. He is not the type to just go and move in with someone if its not really serious so I was stunned although I didnt let him know that!

Sorry to ramble for so long but yeah - its the year for old loves getting married/serious too.

SweetHeatherB Posted: Jul 30, 2004 12:44 AM

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I dated my first true love for about a year and although he turned out to be kind of a jerk i still hold a special place for him in my heart (unfortunately ) i just can't help it!