just started crying/freaking out

Im_My_Own_Princess
Wedding Countdown
43 Days 22 Hours
53 Minutes 2 Seconds

really?? REALLY!???



I have NO time or money to get anything done!
I still can't find freaking shoes or DOJ.. and I need to start my fittings ASAP!
besides that... all the little things, like programs, wands, favors, BP/parent gifts... my hair...



I'm blaming it on PMS... but I'm totally freaking the freak out!



thanks girls- I should watch how I say stuff.. lol. I money, its just tight. and I don't want to spend it ALL on shoes and stuff. I think I found DOJ... but I'm not 100% into it.
its just hte damn shoes that are getting me so upset!

if you have no money then you need to prioritize what you want...

ETA: you can always borrow DOJ and even shoes for that matter...

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Posted by AngnShaun

if you have no money then you need to prioritize what you want...

ETA: you can always borrow DOJ and even shoes for that matter...

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yup. At this point focus on having the $ to cover the vendors that your already contracted for and then go on to other stuff.

Don't freak out Make a list of what you have to do. Sometimes when it's in our heads it's waaaaay bigger than on paper. Once you have it written down, take one thing at a time. And you can buy really, really inexpensive DOJ at www.weddingfactorydirect.com

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Posted by AdriandSteve

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Posted by AngnShaun

if you have no money then you need to prioritize what you want...

ETA: you can always borrow DOJ and even shoes for that matter...

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yup. At this point focus on having the $ to cover the vendors that your already contracted for and then go on to other stuff.

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ita... programs, wands, etc. are not going to make or break your wedding. if you're stressing about time and money, ditch things like that.

and for gods sake please stop freaking out about the shoes. those are like the least important thing...

It's ok, I think your right on schedule for that moment when you realize just how close you are. Like the other girls said, I would focus on paying off major vendors. Honestly whatever jewelry & shoes you get will be nice. Hope ya feel better & we all have those moments

ehh honestly programs are nice as an extra but no one will notice if you dont have them and 90% of people are gonna toss em anyway. skip them.

favors? 14 people told me they hate favors. I dumped the idea.

ok you need shoes. I'll give you that but dont get crazy over them. You're wearing a BIG dress. Know who's gonna see them? you.

take a breath and deal w it one issue at a time. think honestly, do I need this? If not, ditch it.

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess


thanks girls- I should watch how I say stuff.. lol.

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that would help...

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Posted by AngnShaun

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess


thanks girls- I should watch how I say stuff.. lol.

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that would help...

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dont freak out, please! I'm the day before you and I have no programs eithers, and my favors are still in transit. Once i get them in the mail, I have to get together with my mom and assemble them...and that will easily take several hours..

I also have a lot of other details, like actually picking the church MUSIC, and contacting my DJ to tell him our song selection (which I still havent figured out yet!). Oh and of course, losing those 20lbs so I can fit into my dress.

42-43 days is plenty of time...A lot of things will fall into place the 2 weeks prior to the wedding.

i agree you need to prioritize- honestrly programs were stressing me out..

so you know what i'm doing... SCRATCH THEM..

i dont' have the extra money to buy them from someone or the time/patience to do them myself...

ask yourself will this make my wedding better- the little things don't so dont stress about them!