Just want to let out a sigh of relief...

btrflygrl Posted: Feb 05, 2005 11:26 PM

Just want to let out a sigh of relief...

Well...it's FINALLY over and done with.....after 6 weeks and 1 day, I finally hit zero with my beta. A few days later AF came and she is now gone....

so I can finally see myself as normal. 8 weeks long....and it felt like so much longer. I honestly could cry now knowing that my body is back to normal. And to be quite honest, I feel it's harder to deal with now...one of my best friends is PG and she was only 1 week ahead of me and just found out it's a boy. I'm hapy for her, but it still breaks my heart.

I don't know when we will actively TTC again as DH will be going back to school.

8 weeks that changed my life, that I will never forget, and that have showed me that I can get through anything with Rich by my side. It was a roller coaster ride all the way...but I made it.

beachgirl13 Posted: Feb 05, 2005 11:29 PM

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I can't imagine how you must feel. Hang in there. You sound so positive, which is good!

palebride Posted: Feb 05, 2005 11:30 PM

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it's amazing how the things in life can teach you lessons, isn't it?

allure Posted: Feb 05, 2005 11:47 PM

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All The Best

jcndd Posted: Feb 06, 2005 08:53 AM

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Life never gives you anything more than you can handle...As awful as it was and as much as you'd never have asked to have to go through it, it has brought you and DH closer together and that is so important. Sometimes things like this have the opposite affect. I am so happy you have your body back! When it is meant to be you will be PG again and it will be beautiful!

juju Posted: Feb 06, 2005 10:10 AM

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kelswiss Posted: Feb 06, 2005 02:36 PM

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wc0143 Posted: Feb 06, 2005 07:06 PM

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sassy2611 Posted: Feb 06, 2005 11:01 PM

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Anniegrl Posted: Feb 07, 2005 10:17 AM

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Bebalina Posted: Feb 08, 2005 09:19 PM

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Shana....Rich and you will get thru anything life throws at you as long as you have each other.

brideinapril Posted: Feb 09, 2005 09:43 AM

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You are a strong woman Shana, I am so glad that this experience only brought you and your DH closer together, now you truly know you can get through anything life may throw at you.

jozieb0925 Posted: Feb 09, 2005 01:40 PM

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Everything happens for a reason and when the time is right..everything will work out for you. Good luck!!

sun86moon Posted: Feb 10, 2005 06:03 PM

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swags1016 Posted: Feb 10, 2005 08:29 PM

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Shana I know exactly how you feel. I had a friend that was 4 days behind me when I was PG and she now has a healthy little boy (thankfully!!!!) It was so hard. But I learned so much from that time and allowed the one positive thing to really come from it, and that was the cementing of mine and DH's relationship even more. I didn't know we could be closer but the miscarriage brought us closer than I ever could have imagined. I know it's hard. Believe me I know. You will never forget about your little one but it will get easier that I can promise.

pschica Posted: Feb 12, 2005 11:45 AM

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i don't come on the bds much (crackdown at work the past few months!) so i catch up on weekends but have been following your heartbreak and all you have been through. you are so wonderful about all of it and have a great outlook on everything, your ability to share has also helped everyone who reads these boards.

your post made me tear up....you are so lucky (as are many of us!) to have a supportive and loving husband by your side and for him to have such a great wife.

everything happes for a reason, i am a huge believer in this - and you both will have the family of your dreams one day. hang in there! lots of s and best of luck to you in the future!!!