Just wanted to give a little inspiration..
I reunited with my BEST friend after not speaking for a year & a half & now she will be my bridesmaid!!! I just had to share. We stopped talking for a stupid reason. We were both stubborn & no one called or even tried to fix it. I don't know why it even happened. Probably because I am always the one with everyone else that tries to fix everything. I think this time I was like she needs to come to me. (Her & I had NEVER had a fight though in 7 years of friendship)..So by behaving this way, I lost the person closest to me.
All this time I got engaged, & am planning my wedding. But I had an emptiness because she wasn't going to be a part of it. It just wasn't the same. One day last week I let my other good friend in on how I was feeling & she blurts out that she saw her, & that she missed me (nice girl, she saw her 3 months ago & 'forgot to tell me??'anyway...) I found that hard to believe since never made any attempt to contact me. But then, she told me something that my old Best Friend had said to her that I didn't tell anyone... When she watched the Heidi & LC reunion she was balling thinking of us! haha I did the exact same thing but felt so stupid I never mentioned it to anyone..that was enough for me... Stupid as it may sound, this was my sign & I was going to make it right.
It was killing me to picture my wedding day without her in it. I wrote her a msg on Facebook, & pretty much told her that. With in 10 minutes she wrote me back that she was hysterically crying & wanted to talk but couldn't because of work & that she'd call me that night. She did & we met up last night for dinner & I got to see her entire family again. I was so happy especially because her sis is due with their 1st baby this Monday! So I basically proposed to her if she'd be my bridesmaid & we both started crying.
Life is too short & I didn't want to end up like my gf at work that got married & had her baby with out reconciling with her friend. She's 55 told me that to this day still regrets it..
Sorry I just needed to share & inspire anyone else maybe in the same situation...Words cannot describe how happy I am.
All this time I got engaged, & am planning my wedding. But I had an emptiness because she wasn't going to be a part of it. It just wasn't the same. One day last week I let my other good friend in on how I was feeling & she blurts out that she saw her, & that she missed me (nice girl, she saw her 3 months ago & 'forgot to tell me??'anyway...) I found that hard to believe since never made any attempt to contact me. But then, she told me something that my old Best Friend had said to her that I didn't tell anyone... When she watched the Heidi & LC reunion she was balling thinking of us! haha I did the exact same thing but felt so stupid I never mentioned it to anyone..that was enough for me... Stupid as it may sound, this was my sign & I was going to make it right.
It was killing me to picture my wedding day without her in it. I wrote her a msg on Facebook, & pretty much told her that. With in 10 minutes she wrote me back that she was hysterically crying & wanted to talk but couldn't because of work & that she'd call me that night. She did & we met up last night for dinner & I got to see her entire family again. I was so happy especially because her sis is due with their 1st baby this Monday! So I basically proposed to her if she'd be my bridesmaid & we both started crying.
Life is too short & I didn't want to end up like my gf at work that got married & had her baby with out reconciling with her friend. She's 55 told me that to this day still regrets it..
Sorry I just needed to share & inspire anyone else maybe in the same situation...Words cannot describe how happy I am.
