Just went over my guest list

Wintersbride Posted: May 10, 2006 10:18 PM

Just went over my guest list

I don't know if half of these people are realisticly going to come. Ok, PANICING!!!!

NY031978 Posted: May 10, 2006 10:27 PM

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how many ppl do u have?!

we have 230 but i wont be shocked if all we have is 150

Wintersbride Posted: May 10, 2006 10:30 PM

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130 and the only vendors I can think of that I am feeding is the band and possibly my officiant. I will be real disappointed if I get a lot of NO's.

NY031978 Posted: May 10, 2006 10:32 PM

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what do u have to gauante at the hall?

Wintersbride Posted: May 10, 2006 10:35 PM

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100, but would not be too crazy if I fall slightly under the minimum. Our hall is kinda small, so if I have like 90 it will be perfect.

kara10152006 Posted: May 10, 2006 10:40 PM

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do you have a 'b' list, just in case?

Wintersbride Posted: May 10, 2006 10:46 PM

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Posted by kara10152006

do you have a 'b' list, just in case?

No, I come from a very small family. Most of my guests are friends and friends of the family. There is a lot of drama w/ my fil's and my fmil and ffil are not invited.

NY031978 Posted: May 10, 2006 10:52 PM

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well if u have 130 ppl invited..id think u get 90 if not more!

kara10152006 Posted: May 10, 2006 10:53 PM

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if you don't make the minimum maybe you can convince your hall to throw in some upgrades at no additional charge.

JPand TT Posted: May 10, 2006 11:07 PM

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I should be ok if you are inviting 130.

jellybean1420 Posted: May 10, 2006 11:31 PM

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I invited 240 and am scraping to get 150, including vendors. Hopefully you have better luck!!!!

Wintersbride Posted: May 11, 2006 02:43 PM

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NY031978 Posted: May 11, 2006 02:45 PM

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askin them not to come? why?!

Wintersbride Posted: May 11, 2006 02:50 PM

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October Bliss Posted: May 11, 2006 03:15 PM

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Posted by Wintersbride

130 and the only vendors I can think of that I am feeding is the band and possibly my officiant. I will be real disappointed if I get a lot of NO's.

What about your photographer and videographer? We are feeding them, as well as DOC. My officiant and his wife are receiving a formal invite to the wedding.

kmkelly Posted: May 11, 2006 04:04 PM

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I invited over 200, and knew many would not come. With the responses coming in, I'm cutting it close to making my minimum, which is 100.

On Monday and Tuesday of this week, I was FREAKING OUT ... Monday I got a couple of responses, and Tuesday, NONE ...... I was having anxiety attacks. I thought about this for days and realized, panicking is not getting me anywhere...I have no control over how people respond... and I will probably make my minimum. So I have to let it go. In the end I'll probably be fine. So will you. Try not to panic !!!