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Just Wondering.....

MzDaniBaby Posted:

Just Wondering.....

Does the wedding party normally get mailed invites? I was recently in a wedding and we did not get invites. I didn't think any way of it because we were not guest we were participants. However my co-worker made it seem to me that the wedding party should get invitations.

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Everyone gets an invite

T E R I Posted:

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Yes, everyone is suppose to get mailed invites, wedding party, parents, everyone that is invited to the wedding

soontobemrsag Posted:

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i am sending my wedding party invits they may want to keep it or put it into a frame for me or whatever...but yes i am sending them i also keep the RSVP cards and put them into a photo album!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mbscheer Posted:

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I have always gotten an invite when I was in a wedding party.

lori7570 Posted:

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I think everyone should get it....even though they are participants it's not like they are working the event...they're still guests

kimmaymb20 Posted:

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ITA with the girls if they are invited to the wedding even if they are in the bridal party they receive an invite.

StaceYums81 Posted:

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I'm glad u asked this cause I was wondering myself, and now I know!

lolalovesacroat Posted:

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everyone gets an invite
MzDaniBaby Posted:

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I am thinking I could just show it to them if they want to see it. I don't know what I will do about this. Like I said I never received one as a wedding party member but it seems most people have received or sent/sending one to their wedding party. I was orignally sending my 'will you be my bridesmaid' cards with the Save the Dates and just have them tell me if they were bringing someone or not since I see or speak to all of them pretty often. But maybe now I will send them invites. However part of me feels that is a waste of paper, as I am sending one invite per household for ones with 'adult children' (meaning my 18 year old cousins). I will see what FH thinks. Thanks for the input.

JAAMS Posted:

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I think that the bridal party generally does get an invitation. Also, I think it's just good for everyone to have a paper copy with all the information. It's easier to refer to and then they don't have to ask you a million times.

CloudNine Posted:

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i have never heard of the participants not getting one. i will be sending it to everyone. also, sometimes your particip[ants would wanna save your invite since they are firends/close to you so i would def send them one

JillandJoe Posted:

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im mailing them invites, but not expecting rsvps from them. I didn't send them SDT's cuz they know the date and i didn't order enough lol
bubberflys Posted:

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I'm sending them STD's and invites, even with a reply card. If they don't reply, I still know the answer. Some of my friends will keep it the invite as a sentimental thing (I know I've always done) and also, it's a good way to tell them if they are invited with a guest or not and also, give them the important into in one place, as well as directions and such.

I would never have thought about not giving them one.
MzDaniBaby Posted:

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I never save invites that probably why I didn't think anything of it. They go in the garbage for me after the event is over. But I'll probably sen the BP invites since that seems to be the general consensus here.

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