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just wondering...

5272012 Posted:

just wondering...

how far in advanced do you send your invites?
what is the rsvp date usually like?
SummerBeauty Posted:

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I'm the studious bride and every book I've read so far says to mail 6-8 weeks before the wedding and the Rsvp date to be 2-3 weeks before the wedding to allow for a final head count to the caterer.

bebita0830 Posted:

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my wedding is gonna be in sept. 16th so I'm sending invites the week after july 4th and rsvp in the middle of august, so guests will have a month to respond

meghan13 Posted:

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My RSVP is 7/15 and I'm mailing the invites the first week of june.

IrishAli Posted:

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You do not want to only leave yourself 2-3 weeks to follow up on stragglers who forgot to RSVP and make table assignments!

Your RSVP should be at least a month before the wedding, then you can send the invites out 4 weeks before that
Yankeeelove Posted:

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I'm sending mine first week of July most likely, and the RSVP date will be exactly one month before my wedding

FutureMrsTlasek Posted:

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My wedding is 9/10 and my RSVP date will be July 25th. We are planning on sending them out in June. We both want to know far in advance who is coming and how much $$$ we will owe. I know there is a certain etiquette about when you should send invites but I think it is up to you and what works best!

pjc92980 Posted:

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my wedding is 8/6
my rsvp is 7/5
i am mailing them the last week of May
FutureMrsJC Posted:

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I have to provide my final head count to the Rh two weeks before the wedding, so my RSVP date is 4 weeks before the wedding, and I am mailing them 8 weeks before the wedding.

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