I have become the most indecisive person. First I changed my theme/color scheme about 15 times (even after I started purchasing items in certain colors). Then I decided my dress wasn't 'the one' so now dress number 2 is on it's way --- but I look at the pics and think that maybe I should have looked more. Now I want to change the color of my pocketfolds for my dyi invites. I'm wasting a lot of money and time. I'm also getting aggravated. Is it just me or is this what every bride goes thru to one extent or the other?
cherish83
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I have totally done that!!! With the major stuff though I pretty much went with my gut and still am happy about it. We've changed our date, theme, colors. My most indecisiveness has come with the HM. We booked one cruise, cancelled, booked another. We're still doing the cruise, but what we do after, I keep changing my mind.
FutureMrsCarrieri
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yesterday I was thinking that maybe I shouldn't have gone with the ROUND rhinestone buckles
jgl
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im the same way and i didnt the same thing i ended up getting a different dress (lukily they voided my old one - so lucky)
but i always second guess myself and then feel guilty aobut what i got or choose.. i hate that im like that but unforuntely thats how i am and i did it with things besiedes the wedding
just try to take a break from it and go back and see if you still feel that way.
cherish83
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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri
yesterday I was thinking that maybe I shouldn't have gone with the ROUND rhinestone buckles
What I would do is make a mock invite with the round and one with square to see which you like better.
FutureMrsCarrieri
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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri
yesterday I was thinking that maybe I shouldn't have gone with the ROUND rhinestone buckles
What I would do is make a mock invite with the round and one with square to see which you like better.
I told FH that maybe I want square ones after all (after obsessing over the round ones) and the look on his face was priceless, lol
DGoldfarb0776
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I honestly haven't had any second guesses on anything that I did for the wedding- which was good because at times I can be very indecisive.
I also told all my vendors that once I make a decision, that will be it unless it would ABSOLUTELY needed to be changed...fortunately I didn't have to go back on my words.
madseason
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omg ive changed almost everything - you arent going crazy - but u are getting close so you might need to sit for a minute and really think about what you want before it adds up!
