kicked out

branNjay Posted: Apr 01, 2007 07:55 PM

kicked out

Ok i know this is going to sound really bad......but i want to kick my sister out of my wedding party.

We used to be really close but she has made some really bad choices in her life that i do not agree with. I really DONT want her in my wedding party. She has 3 kids(who I love to death) and spends her money on partying and always pawns her kids off on other people.

I cant take it anymore latly I have been expressing how I feel about the situation to her and we always end up in a screaming match. We just got in a fight and she made a comment about how she doesnt want me to call her or the kids anymore(which I know wont stick because I always take care of her kids)

My issue is i dont want her in my bridal party but I still want my neice and nephews. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

Ilovebriani Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:10 PM

Re: kicked out

i would wait it out a little longer b/c if you kick her out of your BP right now out of anger you might regret it. but i totally understand where you are coming from. if your sister really means it and decides not to talk to you than you might consider it. it's tough though....i dont know your relationship and real history but as a sister i am sure the 2 of you have such a history together (hopefully some of it good). if there is any possibility of the 2 of you making up in the future then i wouldnt want to mess with it by kicking her out of your BP. i am sorry you are dealing with this tough situation right now i am sure it is not easy esp. if she dosnt seem willing to want to listen.

michellecarin Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:11 PM

Re: kicked out

Posted by Ilovebriani

i would wait it out a little longer b/c if you kick her out of your BP right now out of anger you might regret it. but i totally understand where you are coming from. if your sister really means it and decides not to talk to you than you might consider it. it's tough though....i dont know your relationship and real history but as a sister i am sure the 2 of you have such a history together (hopefully some of it good). if there is any possibility of the 2 of you making up in the future then i wouldnt want to mess with it by kicking her out of your BP. i am sorry you are dealing with this tough situation right now i am sure it is not easy esp. if she dosnt seem willing to want to listen.

good point heather