kicked out MOH

soontobecruz Posted: Aug 05, 2009 11:49 AM

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Ughhh that's really tough. Sorry she forced you to do that, and sorry her reponse wasn't kinder. It sounds like you made the right decision though.. hang in there

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 11:52 AM

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I'm sorry

It's probably best this way; she would have caused you a lot more stress in the long run

Panamasweet Posted: Aug 05, 2009 01:43 PM

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Sometimes weddings bring out the true character in people. I kicked my MOH out also. I still dont know if i am even inviting her to the wedding.

Good luck

Becca2010 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 02:13 PM

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Posted by Nichole2010

Posted by Becca2010

That stinks, but it's for the better! Do you have someone else lined up to be your MOH?

i do have someone else...what happened was, I got engaged in 08...got super excited and asked my bridal party right away...biiiiig mistake...i became superrr close with new people since then and drifted away with people since then..

That's funny, the same thing happened to me too! Since getting engaged, I've knocked out 3 people and gained 2 or 3!

amarra121 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 02:15 PM

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wow thats such a bummer. Im sorry it had to come down to that. But in the end maybe its for the best.

shelbylove918 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 02:20 PM

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Posted by Nichole2010

Posted by Becca2010

That stinks, but it's for the better! Do you have someone else lined up to be your MOH?

i do have someone else...what happened was, I got engaged in 08...got super excited and asked my bridal party right away...biiiiig mistake...i became superrr close with new people since then and drifted away with people since then..

I waited on my bridal party for that same reason.. i was undecided about bp and who i wanted in it. waiting was the best route cause i feel good about my decision now. :)

scatteredx12 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 05:09 PM

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That s*cks... Don't let it keep you down though and ruin your day... It'll be for the best, and it's better you did it now rather than a few weeks before the wedding... Hang in there!

Future Mrs H Posted: Aug 05, 2009 05:47 PM

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I am so sorry to hear that Nicole

CloudNine Posted: Aug 05, 2009 05:59 PM

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eh you are better off...if this was a stress for you..it no longer is and that will be better for you in the long run

happychelle Posted: Aug 05, 2009 06:09 PM

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I'm so sorry that this happened! I know you are probably sad that it will end the friendship, but maybe that is what's best considering her reaction

marinai7 Posted: Aug 05, 2009 06:37 PM

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Sorry that you had to do that but it seems like you are happy with the decision. Good luck.

pjankowski Posted: Aug 05, 2009 06:39 PM

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Uughh.. that stinks! I am sorry you had to go through that. I hope things work out for you!

RitasEngaged Posted: Aug 05, 2009 07:04 PM

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sorry to hear that but you are probably beter off

LanaB Posted: Aug 05, 2009 07:52 PM

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OMG I know exactly how you feel. I have the same probblem with one of my bridesmaids, well she's no longer my bridesmaid anymore. Ever since I started planning my wedding, I feel like jelouse is just eating her apart, at some point I felt like she was trying to ruin my wedding, or have some sort of competition!!!! So don't feel bad, you are not alone!