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Kind of a sad question

crisd21 Posted:

Kind of a sad question

Ok so FH's mom passed away when he was 11 and he doesn't have many family members especially female relatives, the aunt he would have danced with is probably not even coming. He is going to dance the mother/son dance with my mother. My question is: what song would you ladies suggest? They are def. pretty close, we have been together 7 years and right now (to save some money) we live with my parents so she is def. like a mother to him. The fact that he doesn't have a mother to dance with really upsets me but he will always have my mother Any suggestions would be helpful.....
lisam1113 Posted:

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Not sure how helpful this could be.. I googled mother/son first dance songs for a few suggestions & this is the list I got... It's a lot to look thru but depending on yours & FH's taste in music I'm sure there's got to be something there that seems good!

You’ve Got A Friend – James Taylor
That’s What Friends are For – Dionne Warwick and friends
Friends – Michael W Smith
Lean On Me – Bill Withers or Club Nuveau
Shower the People – James Taylor
You Raise Me Up – Josh Groban
Wind Beneath My Wings – Bette Midler
Love Can Build A Bridge – The Judds
Return to Pooh Corner – Kenny Loggins
Through the Years – Kenny Rogers
I Hope You Dance – Leann Womack
What A Wonderful World – Louis Armstrong
You’ll Be In My Heart – Phil Collins
Circle of Life – Elton John
Forever Young – Rod Stewart
I Will Remember You – Sarah McLachlan
You Are The Sunshine Of My Life – Stevie Wonder
Isn’t She Lovely – Stevie Wonder
Moon Dance – Van Morrison
The Prayer – Andrea Bocelli
Stand By Me – Ben E King
You Decorated My Life – Kenny Rogers
Change The World – Babyface and Eric Clapton
Waiting on the World To Change – John Mayer
Lean On Me – Bill Withers
One Love – Bob Marley
Reach Out and Touch – Diana Ross
Ain’t No Mountain High
What The World Needs Now
Walk Of Life – Dire Straits
Fly Me To The Moon – Frank Sinatra
The Way you Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
IN My Life - Beatles
anjelagain Posted:

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You could always skip the mother dance... Im skipping mine, mine passed away too. We're actually not doing parent dances now that I think of it.

kdm822 Posted:

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maybe they can pick out a song together? or have your mom pick one out.. i know my mom thinks of my FH as a son let alone future son inlaw.. im sure if she did that he would be very touched

Bride in 2012 Posted:

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Rascal Flatts - My Wish

Watermelon5 Posted:

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Aw, that is very sweet that they have such a close relationship. Def one of the suggestions above would be appropriate

ETA: Wind beneath my winds may be cute since she has been there for him much of his adult life
mara1017 Posted:

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I have the same issue. Both of my FH;s parents are not alive. I spoke with him and originally said that we would cut out the parent dances. He was like absolutely not you should dance with your dad and I will dance with you mom! I am so happy that he feels close enough to her to feel comfortable about that.

Unfortunately I am not much help with what song because I have the same questioN!
chliekm Posted:

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Posted by sjr385

Would it help if you combined the father/daughter and 'mother/son' dance into one? That might make it easier to pick a song.



I like this idea.. maybe have you start off and then he can ask your mom to dance in the middle?
BellaRegina Posted:

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I'm in the same boat...my FH's mom passed when he was in high school. I think he is going to dance with his older sister, but we have no idea to which song yet.

gmo4462 Posted:

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Posted by crisd21

Ok so FH's mom passed away when he was 11 and he doesn't have many family members especially female relatives, the aunt he would have danced with is probably not even coming. He is going to dance the mother/son dance with my mother. My question is: what song would you ladies suggest? They are def. pretty close, we have been together 7 years and right now (to save some money) we live with my parents so she is def. like a mother to him. The fact that he doesn't have a mother to dance with really upsets me but he will always have my mother Any suggestions would be helpful.....



My Wish by rascal flatts! Love that song!
My dad is in a wheel chair so I cant dance with him. I'm gonna do a slide show of us from when I was born and play that song.
KristyANDMatt224 Posted:

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Posted by Bride in 2012

Rascal Flatts - My Wish



This!

i chose this song for a dance with my FFIL... my FH wants to dance it with my mom at the same time...

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