kind of WR- Some of you may remember and have asked about:
So, going back a little I posted (which I cant find) about my 'friend' who I got the shower invite for...and didnt want to go, she still has yet to congratulate me on my engagment-almost 6 months ago- and we havent been that close..
anyway, i did NOT go to shower- instead I booked a photographer that day, to me, MUCH more important.
I DID respond to her aunt...and I MAILED a gift to her aunts house so it would arrive before her shower date and she could open it there.
going back a little, she had emailed me (to the wrong email address the one i used in college- but another friend forwarded it to me)
asking for my fh's last name (for wedding invites)I emailed her
YESTERDAY- i got a call from her , didnt answer- telling me she needs fh's last name cause they are sending out invites this weekend.
this was the first time she called in over 6 months- and she still has yet to congratulate me and she didnt say anything on the phone.. she didnt mention the gift- like hey, i know you sent my shower gift in the mail and you are probably wondering if i got it, so i did and thank you,and by the way congratulations on your engagement- I cant wait to talk to you!
NO- instead her message was with a BLAH tone, hey nicole, just wanted you to know i am sending out invites this weekend and i erased the email you sent, so i need FH's last name... ok bye
TO ME- it seems like she is obligated to invite me, which i do not want! the wedding is out of state- I am super angry and hurt by her actions..THErefore, I decided NOT to call her back and give her last name- if she wants it there are other people to ask- I am no longer going to speak to her... What a joke- because i havent anyway!
Do you think i am doing the right thing???
anyway, i did NOT go to shower- instead I booked a photographer that day, to me, MUCH more important.
I DID respond to her aunt...and I MAILED a gift to her aunts house so it would arrive before her shower date and she could open it there.
going back a little, she had emailed me (to the wrong email address the one i used in college- but another friend forwarded it to me)
asking for my fh's last name (for wedding invites)I emailed her
YESTERDAY- i got a call from her , didnt answer- telling me she needs fh's last name cause they are sending out invites this weekend.
this was the first time she called in over 6 months- and she still has yet to congratulate me and she didnt say anything on the phone.. she didnt mention the gift- like hey, i know you sent my shower gift in the mail and you are probably wondering if i got it, so i did and thank you,and by the way congratulations on your engagement- I cant wait to talk to you!
NO- instead her message was with a BLAH tone, hey nicole, just wanted you to know i am sending out invites this weekend and i erased the email you sent, so i need FH's last name... ok bye
TO ME- it seems like she is obligated to invite me, which i do not want! the wedding is out of state- I am super angry and hurt by her actions..THErefore, I decided NOT to call her back and give her last name- if she wants it there are other people to ask- I am no longer going to speak to her... What a joke- because i havent anyway!
Do you think i am doing the right thing???
