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Kinda freaking out!!

soontobecruz Posted:

Kinda freaking out!!

I know we all have our moments where we freak out. Especially about money and the cost of everything. Well today it's my turn. FH and I spent a lot of money this weekend, doing things, buying things and celebrating people's birthday's and I am like sick over it today.

I am just having one of those days where it seems it is going to be impossible to not only have our wedding, (which my parents are generiously helping with) but go on a nice HM and find a place to live in a year. I can't imagine how all you January brides are dealing with only 5 months to go.

I am one big Panic Attack today and I can't stand it. I even cancelled my hair appointment with my hair lady for next week and rescheduled it for a later date just to recover from this damn weekend.!
Clover23 Posted:

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I've been getting those days with increasing frequency. Most recently was this past Thursday.

SummerBride10 Posted:

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I'm sure everything will work out fine..

I have those moments sometimes, and thankfully they always pass!
MayBride2010 Posted:

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I feel your pain...trust me. I just looked at my American Express bill (of which FH and I share) and my heart rate has gone through the roof.

I keep telling myself 'it will work out' I hope

MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I have that freak out about once a month. It gives me such a panic attack! Sleeping it off usually helps

StaceyWill Posted:

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I'm in the same boat right now-i think we've all been there at a certain point...
AdriandSteve Posted:

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I'm scared to balance my checkbook cuz i haven't put anything in wedding savings in about a month.
laulac98 Posted:

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I had the same freak out on Saturday when my dad told me I need brakes in my car ASAP. Needing $250 brakes turned into we're not going to be able to pay for a wedding or find a place to live. It's overwhelming but it'll be ok in the end.
regy_k Posted:

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I had one about a month ago, over the same reasons
it will all work out, u have another year. saving happens slowly.
mariedsgn Posted:

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It's okay - I think we all have those days. . . . Well I know that I do!
Just try to relax and remember that everything always works out! It will all come together!
AngnShaun Posted:

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I'm glad i'm not the only one... this is a daily freak out for me!

christine2010 Posted:

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we definitely all have those days. but everyone keeps telling me that everything works out in the end.

jcreilly Posted:

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I know how you feel I am going crazy have been having small panic attacks afarid I will never cover the cost of our wedding and Fh and I have not going house hunting in over a year, Im watching every cent which is weird for me a group of me and fh friends which includes two BM have told me that I dont have to any birthday parties this year thank god because we always go out to dinner and to a club or bar with that group of friends and everyone has been great they are not mad for me ditching this year I just need to make it up for next year they said lol they really are great, and tonight my best friennd is amking dinner for me and another one of our girlfriends. Just take one day at a time I really know how you are feeling I have noone helping with the wedding, my brother paid for half my dress and thats it, and we had an nice e-party where our family gave us some cash but its already been spend. I actually got a second job to pay for the wedding but it seems to be going towards more bills I m always afraid I willnot pull it off but FH says I will ( he is not paying for the wedding, he wanted a house over a wedding so thats where his money is going he knows he will have to give me little come Jan) I told him he has to buy the rings and pay for the RD and take care of tips and everthing else is ME with 5and half mths left im so sorry but its nice to know im not the only one out there sorry so long I think i need to vent as well
20mrsc10 Posted:

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i have those moments all the time
pjankowski Posted:

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Wedding, a good honeymoon and house hunting all are good cause for panic attacks. I am in the same boat. FH seems to be having more of them than me.....Not sure if that is good but at least it does make me feel better.

CristinanBen2010 Posted:

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I get in that mood sometimes. It def. isnt a good feeling. I always think to myself everything will fall into place.

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