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i am a people pleaser, so i care too much what other people think of me. But I've learned that I'd rather have very few real close friends than many 'friends' that often end up hurting me in the end. I've learned to cut ties with certain people.
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I dont know. I cant deal with that either!
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im the same way as you. Im usually the one thats like whatever everyone wants to do is fine, but if you push e enough i can be a *****. Im just sick of those people. What hurts the most is a do have few real friends like you, b/c i always try to be a good friend but a lot of times i get back stabbed. It ***** lol but i dont know how to make it any different
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Ive had a few of those and I've basically written them off... Told em we couldnt be friends b/c I dont deal with crap like that... I have not regretted my decisions either... They are certainly not missed
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I know you are so right, its just hard for me to be the bad guy i guess. Bc most fake people lol will neve admit it when confronted lollll
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its a tough thing and it definitely ***** to be treated that way but in the end, it makes you realize that you can't trust everyone and that its better to have just a few good friends than lots of fake ones
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Posted by melcc83
I know you are so right, its just hard for me to be the bad guy i guess. Bc most fake people lol will neve admit it when confronted lollll
You are better off without them... Its not worth it... Dont be afraid to stand up fr yourself!
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You should open up a can of whip-*** on her!
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hahha i know i know lolllll In my head im like this time Melissa you gotta do it, but usually ill only do it when im confronted i wont make the first move.....alright lettss hear it i know your gonna yell at me agian lollll j/k
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hahahahha i love thattt
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hahha i know i know lolllll In my head im like this time Melissa you gotta do it, but usually ill only do it when im confronted i wont make the first move.....alright lettss hear it i know your gonna yell at me agian lollll j/k
who? me??
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hahaha its ok it dont bother me. Say what ever you want lolll
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I always find a way to tell the people what I think whether directly or indirectly. People are like this and I don't let it get to me. Life is too short to worry about what people think.
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Well I think that now u know how they are.. take them for what they are worth.. nothing but a headache.. and don't let it bother you.. When they are super nice just be super sweet back.. thats what i do.. Kill with kindness.. lol ![]()
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i ignore people like that and if i find out it's someone that i hang out with or are close with then i just cut them out of my life. no time for bs like that.
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I used to care so much about what everyone thought. And now, I can count my'real' friends on one hand.
It was hard to let go because its never easy, but when you try and they dont, and they hurt you, thats enough for me...
It was hard to let go because its never easy, but when you try and they dont, and they hurt you, thats enough for me...
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I am the kind of person once I find things out that people have said behind my back that I can be very standoffish. I just think if you have the audacity to say it behind my back just say it to my face. I'm an honest person, but not many people give the same respect. GL
