Thanks ladies its nice to know im not crazy!! good advice!!
Danielle41209
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This might sound rude to them but let them get married before you. Let her see what it is like planning a wedding and the costs of everything. At the end of the day, she would've spent more time planning her 'dream' wedding that she won't even remember it. And any advice she might give to you for your wedding, take it with a grain of salt. If she is not contributing financially, she has NO SAY!!! Also, no need to add her to your bridal party...do you want to have to see those pictures everyday with her in them!?
Let them compete with something that isn't meant to be a competition. You and FH with have the BEST WEDDING EVER!!!! And at the end of the day, its all that matters
HTH
Chanwich
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Well first, you do NOT have to put her in the bridal party! I wouldn't want someone in the BP who isn't going to be supportive and will only be comparing everything between the two of you. THe fact that she does that is so messed up in the first place. She is probably just jealous that you guys are actually engaged and she is not. You should just have the wedding you want, even if they get married first (which WOULD be messed up!), and don't let her compare everything. Don't even include her in the planning and if she asks just tell her politely that you don't want to discuss it. That ***** that you have to deal with that
JTG4EVER
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You definitely do not have to put her in your bridal party!!! If you don't like her who cares! And I say let them get married before you. Because she obviously seems like a Bridezilla and you don't need that. Let her do it all and plan her wedding and do it her way. Then you can sit back and do yours your way and not have to worry about her trying to copy you. Whatever comments she makes, ignore. It's not her day. Your wedding will be soooooo much better than hers. She seems like she is all about getting married and having a wedding, and you are about love and marrying the man of your dreams. You are about the rest of your life, she is about the day. Don't listen....just blow it off. Everything will be fine.
