Ladies.. It seems I have a lurker!

So I have deleted everything, pictures, info, etc!

It's still me but I'm trying not to have everyone know all about my wedding before it happens!

BOO TO YOU DAMN LURKERS!

Oh and it also seems like I have to get a new dress because a picture of mine was sent to my FH!

so friggin creepy and F'd up!!!!!!

ugh...makes me not want to post any pics at all!

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Posted by allornil

ok now this is REALLY strange don't you think? the same thing happening to 2 brides?

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extremely weird ... do you two have anything in common that this lurker would be targeting you both?

ETA: i'm so sorry for both of you that this has happened to you ... it's absolutely disgusting!

I think The 2 of you need to compare notes.

Get the 2 envelopes and look to see if its the same postmark.

If 'legal diva' did it, then it will come from the same place.

AND maybe Client services can at least tell you the city Legal used as an address.

Worth a look.

this is seriosuly creepy! w t f is wrong with people?


im deleting all my pics now............ i was ancy about putting pics up to begin with because i have a stupid a-hole lurker as well, that i wish would just be NORMAL, but then i felt like i couldnt really be a part of LIW without posting some pics. but now im deleting.

It was texted to my FH.. but it's an untracable number. so I'm guessing its from the computer!!

the pic is blurry but still..

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

2BecomeOne - did you have your FH's name (including last name) and/or his employer on here somehow? Possibly in a Channah Plaque or something?

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she should check out her fb friends too. anyone she is friends with on here she might be fb friends with and they might be able to get that info.

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

2BecomeOne - did you have your FH's name (including last name) and/or his employer on here somehow? Possibly in a Channah Plaque or something?

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Yes I had his last name but it was sent by a text message so it has to be someone who knows him!! I'm thinking it's this girl who was in love with him and is pretty jealous we are engaged!

OMG this is crazy that it has happened to two girls on here. I think this site needs to be available to members only so we can keep all lurkers out!

I'm sorry this happened to you

I am so sorry ladies! Both of you!!!

This is absolutely insane that it happened to two girls on the same day. Is there any way of tracing to the person who did this?

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Posted by MrsVtoBe

OMG this is crazy that it has happened to two girls on here. I think this site needs to be available to members only so we can keep all lurkers out!

I'm sorry this happened to you

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agreeed!! Do you think client services can restrict to just members?

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Posted by JBC12510

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Posted by MrsVtoBe

OMG this is crazy that it has happened to two girls on here. I think this site needs to be available to members only so we can keep all lurkers out!

I'm sorry this happened to you

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agreeed!! Do you think client services can restrict to just members?

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ITA!!!!!!!!!! This site should be MEMBERS ONLY!!!!!!

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Posted by 2BecomeOne

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Posted by JBC12510

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Posted by MrsVtoBe

OMG this is crazy that it has happened to two girls on here. I think this site needs to be available to members only so we can keep all lurkers out!

I'm sorry this happened to you

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agreeed!! Do you think client services can restrict to just members?

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ITA!!!!!!!!!! This site should be MEMBERS ONLY!!!!!!

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we've asked for that before, and I'm sure Kim and Liz will correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure the reason it isn't for members only is because of vendors, I don't remember details. But I agree, This site should be for members only- to have a profile and to see a profile, but GUESTS should be able to post on the BHB board, because some people like to get a feel for a website before the sign up.

but at the same time.. what is the difference between being a member and not being a member? whats stopping a stalker from creating an account?