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Ladies...I am so out of wedding planning...

Original post by JessicaM.

I really don't want to do it any more (plan that is) It's just so much and I have NO idea of what to do on some stuff. I don't even know where to begin. but even fh is concerned that we have too much to do in the 4 months we have left.

I need a wedding planning boost...or a tutorial at least. I feel like all of my ideas are too dumb, too 'out there' or too expensive...especially for favors. I am just not into it right now but I NEED to be, b/c I am running out of time.

sorry for the vent.
FormerlyKnownAsQ Posted:

Re: Ladies...I am so out of wedding planning...

I feel the same way chica

I think a couple of mojitos will do the trick
Awhite80 Posted:

Re: Ladies...I am so out of wedding planning...

I have 8 months and don't feel like doing a thing. I am hoping after christams I will get back into the swing of things. I have so much to do before I go to england on January 29th for 5 months. Ughh. The thought of it makes me want to vomit!

Laura&Phil Posted:

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I hear ya!!

I didn't even want the expense and hupla of a NY wedding and have been doing the bulk of the planning myself- tyring to make decisions and balance what FH's family wants b/c their Indian and do things differently (even tho they are Protestant) I can't tell you how many times I have cried and wanted to call of the wedding (not the marriage tho!). FH sees things my way right before we made our 3 rd payment to the hall!! It was basically too late then!

Take a break for the holidays and pick it back up by listing your major vendors that you have to book- worry about the little things later- or forget them!! do you need petal cones? nope! Do you need to have special place cards made? Not at all!!

If you are rejuvinated you may get all of it done- or you may get to where FH and I are and not care!! It'll be OK- you have time!!
shellnroc Posted:

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Jess, everything will get done.
It will all fall together.

I totally agree with Christine. She said it best!!!

I am honestly fed up with planning myself. I wish I was done already. You just have to take it day by day. That is what I tell myself.

We are ALL here for you!
JessicaM. Posted:

Re: Ladies...I am so out of wedding planning...

First I want to thank you all for your kind words and support. The best thing about this site is that you know SOMEONE is feeling like you are, and it really helps to get EMPATHY as well as SYMPATHY! thanks my luvlies!!

Second, I was to say that after my little fit, I am feeling much better and have made some decisions. I realized that my ideas cannot be DUMB (I can't even believe I said that ) and that if people don't like it, so what. they can do what they want at THEIR event! I pay= my way!!!

I do require a lot of help and assistance though, so I am hoping that you will all bear with me. I'll need all the help I can get!!

Thanks again to all of you. '06ers really do ROCK!!!
leese Posted:

Re: Ladies...I am so out of wedding planning...

you are cute!

glad you are back in the swing of things!

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