last b-day

BklynItaliana Posted: Mar 09, 2006 02:50 PM

last b-day

I know Santina posted about this being her last christmas at home, but what about last b-day???

It hit me like a ton of bricks yesterday on the train.. i was like holy crap.. this is going to be my last b-day as a single woman living in my parents house...i started crying like a big baby yesterday..

I am the only person not looking foward to that???

Missladybug15 Posted: Mar 09, 2006 10:11 PM

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I was actually thinking about that before, this is going to be my last b-day at home...

Nina Posted: Mar 09, 2006 10:13 PM

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Soon2BeMrsS Posted: Mar 10, 2006 01:03 AM

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aww FH & I have lived together for a while so... I love spending birthdays & Holidys waking up with him....

hmpena Posted: Mar 10, 2006 01:38 AM

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I know it's upsetting right now. But just remember, you're going to have all new experiences and be able to create your own traditions! Think about waking up on your first married b'day and opening a card from your husband that states 'For my Wife on her birthday.' It will be amazing!

Ser29 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 08:11 AM

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i'll be honest FH already bought me a wife card cause he loved the words in it .. its the best feeling in the world to get this.. this being my 25th b-day next month it makes me think wow i can't wait till the next step in life.. we're getting married 2 weeks before my 26th b-day

JazzyT Posted: Mar 10, 2006 08:59 AM

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i'm going to miss being at home too...this will be my last birthday, christmas home too ....but I'm looking forward to life with FH

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:02 AM

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Aww hun dont be upset.... you family will still be around on your birthday. Just think of it this way, you will not be at your parents house but they will be coming to your house for your b-day. I think about not being at any more for the holidays and events but i guessi just look foward to staritng my own home and my own family. I know my family will always be there for me, as I will always be thete for them....NO MATTER WHERE I LIVE!!!

pupidda122505 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:04 AM

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I was feeling the same way u were a few weeks ago and the girls on this site really came through and helped me understand that what I'm feeling (and what you're feeling) is totally normal. When you feel a little down just think of all the wonderful things u have to look forward to. You'll be starting your own family and making a home with them and sharing so many new experiences with your FH. and keep in mind that just because you're getting married doesn't mean you're abandoning your family - i've heard that people have an even stronger bond with their parents and siblings after they get married.

BklynItaliana Posted: Mar 10, 2006 09:19 AM

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thanks ladies

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:34 AM

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Posted by pupidda122505

I was feeling the same way u were a few weeks ago and the girls on this site really came through and helped me understand that what I'm feeling (and what you're feeling) is totally normal. When you feel a little down just think of all the wonderful things u have to look forward to. You'll be starting your own family and making a home with them and sharing so many new experiences with your FH. and keep in mind that just because you're getting married doesn't mean you're abandoning your family - i've heard that people have an even stronger bond with their parents and siblings after they get married.

That is true, Mt bro got married this past november and when he was living at home we never saw eachother. we litterally had to make plans to go out as a group so we can actually hang out.. now that he is married, and he moved out my fiance and I make it a point to go to hios house every friday and hang out with them. we have dinner play cars.. all that good stuff. Honestly i like it more this way!!!

thelilacone Posted: Mar 10, 2006 10:38 AM

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My Bday falls around Labor Day and my parents always go to Pennsylvania to help out with the Polish Festival during the Labor day weekend and the weekend after. So my bday does not get made a big deal. My FH has spend my bday with me since we started dating. Hopefully he'll start making a big deal out of my bday more when we're married.

Mel329 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 11:22 AM

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I think about not being with my parents after I'm married and sometimes I get really upset. I really am going to miss not coming home and being with my parents. I had a very hard time in college being away from home. I know that this is different and I'm starting a new life together with the man I love, but I think it will be an adjustment piece for me and will probably call home quite a lot in the beginning.