Last Night...

Last Night...

I fell asleep while watching the movie 'look who's talking?' on tv... i had a dream me and my fh had a baby ... it was too cute...lol.... nice dream... but not planning on a baby for a few years, i wanna enjoy having some time with the husband first... i thought this would be a good topic for discussion...what do u guys think? having kids right away or waiting?

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I'm definitely going to wait a few years. I will hope to travel as much as I can and buy a house first. Then we can talk about kids

If I fall asleep watching a movie, I almost always have a dream about that. hehee

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I plan to wait- we want to travel alittle and I need to get my career taken care of. I always had someone to come home to when I was little and I want to make sure I can provide that while working too...

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we are not having children- something we discussed b4 getting engaged

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definitely going to wait, for three reasons. 1. for career reasons (i want to get through most of my PhD first) 2. because we want to enjoy each other before we have a kid and 3. because we're too young and poor.

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waiting till I am done with school. which will be in about 5 yrs.

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Definitely waiting! Maybe 2-3 years after the wedding...No rush!

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we are planning on waiting a little while, FH has a 4 1/2 year old daughter - i want to have my feet grounded in my career for atleast 1 full year before we plan on popping out a kid - if it happens sooner after we get married than expected - no big deal tho

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I want kids right away...like a honeymoon baby would be great.

I feel that I am getting older, and I have some 'female' troubles with irregular cycles, so I don't want to risk waiting and then not being able to get pregnant.

By the time we get married, we will have had 8 years of enjoying each other and vacations and stuff, so I think we're ready.