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Latest drama from our 'difficult' GM....

Kathy116 Posted:

Latest drama from our 'difficult' GM....

My FI's step-brother, who is a GM has been making things difficult since day 1.

(Now, because most of FIs family is in California, and one of our GMs passed away recently, FI only has 3 GMs, including the best man...)

This GM informs us that he doesn't want to ride in the guys limo, he wants to go in his car with his wife because he doesn't want her to feel isolated.

I told him she can go in the limo with him, or she can hang out with me and the BMs,

He's also whining that he and his wife are only going to know a few people, and that they're 'NOT INTO THE SOCIAL SCENE'.....well, why did he agree to be a GM if this is such a hardship on his social graces?

I told him that he'll meet FIs mother...GMs response was that FIs father has told him that she's a real (insert curse word), cold-hearted, etc.

THis guy is totally on my nerves, and he's upset that he has to get to our house a few hours before the ceremony for pictures...

I told FI he better straighten him out before the wedding...but FI is so passive, he's not doing anything. I'm getting sick of hearing this BS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kaangel217 Posted:

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I hope that your FI straightens him out. I'm sorry that you have to deal with such an ignorant man. Let your FH deal with him its his step brother and you have too many other things to focus on.
flannism Posted:

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I agree with kaangel. This guy is not your problem, even if your FI is being passive. Judging from your story, it's pretty clear that the GM has other problems unrelated to the wedding, and he's complaining in order to get attention or to avoid talking about what's really bothering him (which probably has nothing to do with you).

Kathy116 Posted:

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Yeah, you're right...I just don't want to hear it from him.

Kathy116 Posted:

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This guy also tries to upset me...he keeps reminding me that it may snow, and it's quite possible that NO ONE will come to our wedding because of the weather.

Then he was telling me that his mother (FI's stepmother, who is NOT coming to the wedding, because she's crazy and she lives in Florida), will try to ruin our wedding and not to worry, start expecting some abusive phone messages from her.

This guy just wants to upset me...FIs stepmother hasn't will would never do anything like that, she's crazy, but she's not like that off the wall.
flannism Posted:

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Argh. Sounds like this guy is what the self-help books call a 'toxic personality'

Good luck!!!! (I love your dog, btw!)
larryswife2be Posted:

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Always remember this is YOUR day. Sounds like he does need a serious personality change

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