I am so angry at my FI, I have spent all day trying to get our final list of addresses ready so I can send out the STD. I basically have my side done, BUT my FI barely has any from his side. He said doesn't care!! He doesn't want to bother people in order to find them!!! Now if his mother were alive I would call her to find out, but I don't know his relatives that well to call anyone. How do I get him off is a$$ and help???
halfpintny
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When you come up with a solution let me know! My STDs are stuffed into envelopes waiting for addresses. I have been asking FH for two months now for the list...I still have no idea how many people FILs THINK they're inviting...FH says he's tired of 'harassing' his family for the list.
gNi1125
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I guess you could narrow some down if you know around where they live by using whitepages.com for the exact address, for the rest I guess you have to be persistant with him otherwise he'll never do it. If all else fails call them yourself, I know you don't feel comfy doing this, but you might not have any other choice. Good Luck.
catherine
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I know how you guys feel. I have been bothering FH for address for STD cards as well. I FINALLY got some but had to rely on his best friends wife to get the rest!!! It is so frustrating!!! If they only knew the amount of work it takes to plan a wedding!!!!!!
SomethingBlu
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I came on this thinking I was going to see a picture of my fi! I'm sorry he's not being responsive...definitely ask him if there's anyone you can call for his family's info - an aunt, cousin, anything because you'll need to have this ready ASAP. I'm sure he can tell you who to call or see how unfair it is for you to do it all alone and will actually pitch in. Good luck!
