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Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

tinadansr Posted:

Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

So the FH and I attended a wedding last night and I'm so happy for my friend and her now DH. There were many things that went wrong though and it made me think wow i really need to nai lthis stuff down before my own wedding! I just wanted to share! I dont think i would have thought of this stuff. If you would like the name of the reception hall FM me.

So from the begining the cocktail hour was suppose dot start at 7:15p.m. People had arrived early than that and were waiting to go in. We got there about 7:20 and people were still standing outside. Well turns out they didnot have the room ready.....so at 7:30 we were let in to enjoy the cocktail hour! (not a huge deal)

So while mingling and munching during the cocktail hour i ventured to find the bathroom and noticed that there was another wedding going on in the main room. Now its about 8:00pm and there DJ was still pumping. So not knowing anything about this hall i said ok maybe there is another room we will be in....NOPE! SO the cocktail hour turned into a cocktail 2 hours and the native were getting restless! THats right we did not get seated until 9:30. I am assuming they kicked the otherparty out becuase when i walked by agian they were just rolling out tables and covering them with linens! THey had not even set up yet!...............................Ummmm scheduling problem I think so!

So finally they let us in we sat down around 945-10pm the waitress immediately took our order. THe announcements were made and everyone was dancing or getting drinks. Unfortunately my friend got her drink and 4 otheres at our table spilled down the back of her dress! SHe was soaked! and it would not have been that bad if it was not so cold in the place! ( these things happen you cant change them people make mistake I do did waitressing and have spilled things on myself and others) THe banquet manageer did the right thinkg and asked for the dry cleaning bill and the receipt for the dress itself he wanted to pay for it! Moving on now its oh 1100 and the pasta course comes. dinner at about 1130 1145. THings went smoothly form there until after the cake cutting!

THIS IS THE ONE YOU WANNA READ!
SO everyone is served cake and the DJ makes an announcement ' if you own a trail blazer please come up to the DJ booth' SO my firends date looks up and says ok i do so he goes up there they show him a picture on a camera and a look of horror comes over him! My friend runs up there and starts to walk with him and she gives us that uhoh look! Well it was no 130am and we decided it was time to leave.
Going outside there is a truck parked inthe middle of the parking lot. One of those pickup trucks that has the four wheel in the back ya know two on each side so this thing is huge!
Turns out the valet had whipped around the corner and took off the whole front end of my friend's dates brand new trail blazer!
I mean no bumper no headlight GONE!
THe banquest mananger was out there saying things about how he thinks that they are insured and blah blah blah!
They called the cops to make a report!
Now im thinking like most of you they have these kids that re barely legal driving these cars and they can't handle them! WRONG again! Both valets were well over teh age of 35!

Ladies PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE make sure you know who your getting if you have valet parking and I never thought I would have to ask but accidents do happen and find out what their procedure is if this happens!

I hope this helps you guys!
and I'msorry I'm not using valet parking ever again!
trish71407 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

OMG- I am totally shocked and appalled! I cant believe that a RH would handle themselves in that manner! The whole thing is terrible!

Snickers76 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

I was MOH in a wedding once and the valet came in and told me they locked my keys inside my car with it RUNNING!! I had to call AAA and missed out on a lot of the party. Very frustrating!

TlovesD Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

wow that is terrible for the guests and the bride and groom!
daniebc16 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

I can't get over how the hall wasn't ready, I would be furious and ask for a HUGE discount!

FutureMrsFass Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

Thank goodness that my RH does not have valet parking !!

Espo22 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

WOW that is horrible, i cant believe an RH would do such things...and yeah once FH had his ipod stolen out of his car by the valet
dangell427 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

oh my god thats insanity!!! i hope that the bride got to enjoy some of her night!!

beautyq115 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

A while ago there was quite a racket going on at a catering hall where the valets were replicating people's car keys, finding out where they lived and then stealing their cars afterwards

eelharas4700 Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

omg if that were me i probably would have hid and cried. i cant believe that all happened in one night!!

tinadansr Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

Everyone chose to let the bride enjoy her day so we kept her 'out' of the loop with the valet stuff
I believe she did enjoy her day! THe DJ was great so that was a bonus!

dancinmyazoff Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

What RH was this, I'm curious!
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

What RH was this, I'm curious!




Me too!
bemyyoko Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

wow. those are a bunch of things i never thought about.
I hope the Bride and Groom enjoyed the night though.
AS Posted:

Re: Learn as you go... (kinda lengthy but worth it!)

WOW that is horrible, Im going to FM you for the hall, I would like to know. Thanks for sharing

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