Leesah's list.......

i dont look at it i freak

Im nervous hearing you talk about it...
Where is this list?

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

I suggest you look at it, I realized that I have literally not much time left.........

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there is so much on that list that i DON'T have done

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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Posted by jettahot

Im nervous hearing you talk about it...
Where is this list?

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haven't updated it in a few days but here it is

JULY
- Get pictures of mom & dad wedding photo and print for reception (by 7/30)
- Get photos for memorial table (by 7/30)
- Book honeymoon excursions (by 7/31)
- Go see mom’s/nanny/maureen gowns (7/30)
- Make final payment on invitations (7/30)
- Receive invitations (by 7/31)
- Start teeth whitening (7/30)
- Number response cards to cross reference w/ invite list (by 7/30)
- Purchase stamps for invitations once I can weigh them (by 7/30)
- Finalize Must Take Photo List (by 7/30)
- Finalize Song List (including special songs: Bridal Party Entrance, Parent Entrance, Cake Cutting, First Dance, Mother/Son Dance, Father/Daughter Dance, Bouquet Toss, Garter Toss, Bridal Party Procession, Bridal Procession, Recessional)
- Hair Trial with Headpiece (7/30)
- Daniella first fitting (7/27)

AUGUST
- Send out/hand cancel invitations in first week of August (8/8)
- Make sure bridesmaids schedule fittings for August/September/October (Michaela before she moves to Boston)
- Purchase undergarments
- Book rehearsal dinner site
- Make bathroom baskets
- Buy items for and prep OOT welcome bags
- Tell CHCC about wedding cake (vanilla cake, vanilla buttercream, chocolate fudge and raspberry fruit filling)
- Pick menu with CHCC. Get copies of CHCC menus and personalize with rhinestones.
- Meeting with Flowers by Brian 8/20 to view centerpiece
- Determine readings for ceremony
- Determine music for ceremony
- Set up table at home how I want it to be replicated at the RH and take photos
- Gown Fitting (8/30)

SEPTEMBER
- Get marriage license by 9/15 and schedule in take session with Father James
- Get groomsmen, dads, grandpas, Jason to order tuxes (by 9/10)
- Order RD invites (9/15)
- Marriage License (9/16) (Link for all info)
- Schedule meeting with Father James for end of September/early October
- Acquire Memory Candle / Unity Candle
- Plan ceremony at church (and finalize programs)
- Meet with Father James and Brother Fran
- Give Affidavits of Freedom to Marry to Father James
- Fill out travel documents for cruise
- Finalize excursions for cruise
- Buy and wrap parent gifts?
- Wrap bridal party gifts (9/1)
- Start inquiring into grooms cake and order grooms cake for rehearsal
- Wrap Jason wedding present
- Start seating arrangements
- Break in wedding day shoes
- Make up signature drink and name
- Choose tablecloth colors
- Order chair covers
- Make copies of contracts, seating chart for RH, guest list, vendor information, BP information for DOC
- Second Fitting 9/20
- Record/Make/Wrap favors
- RSVPs due September 26th! Call all guests who have not responded by then
- Final Fitting 9/30

OCTOBER
- Meet with Father James to finalize ceremony details (end of month)
- Get hair cut (10/15)
- Order Escort Cards as soon as all RSVPs are in from Tessa (10/1)
- Send out RD invites early in the month (by 10/1 latest)
- FINAL DOC list for day of
- FINAL must take photo list
- FINAL song list
- Make sure BMs pick up gowns (by 10/5)
- Confirm grooms cake arrangements for rehearsal (by 10/15)
- Give Bridal Party their thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Give parents thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Make and print programs for wedding (by 10/10)
- Pack for honeymoon (before rehearsal on 10/28)
- Give final count to CHCC two weeks before wedding
- Finalize list of tips
- Get money for tips from bank (10/27)
- Rehearsal 10/28
- Finalize seating arrangements – post it notes for people!
- NAIR night before rehearsal (10/27)
- Waxing two nights before rehearsal (10/26)
- Schedule Nail appointment for day before wedding (11/3)
- Attend Bachelorette party
- E-mail and print directions for drivers of transport vehicles
- Submit a newspaper wedding announcement
- Pick up wedding gown (10/5)
- Bring hat from bridal shower to rehearsal and marriage license (10/28)
- Confirm Honeymoon reservations
- Order bagels/sandwiches for groom and groomsmen and bridesmaids for day of (10/28)
- Tell Pete he’s in charge of cardbox
- Assign someone to hand out programs at ceremony
- Finalize wedding day timeline and send it to all vendors (10/30)
- Make pew bows by 10/30

NOVEMBER
- Final headcount due 11/2 to Sharon/Mait’r D
- 11/2 - Pack up and drop off all things needed for reception
- 11/2 - Massage
- Place tips for each vendor in tip envelopes
- Take money out of bank for rest of payments (11/1)
- Wrap B-pic book and give to Jason night of wedding
- Prepare day-of emergency kit
- 11/3 – Flowers by Brian to view, drop off pew bows/bouquet wraps, final payment
- 11/3 Manicure/Pedicure
- Last minute packing for honeymoon (11/3)
- Make sure something old, new, blue, etc
- Bring marriage license and stamped address envelope to ceremony for officiant to sign
- Have empty boxes ready and labeled for items needed to be taken by mom home from reception
- Confirm time with mom to travel to honeymoon
- Arrange transportation back home after HM

Ignorance is bliss

Her list makes me want to

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

Hahaha Lisa, no but really, it has put it in to perspective, I really don't have that many weekends left to get all these things done................aaahhh

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i know i feel the same way!!!!

starting to freak!!! and i have 2 weddings thrown in there and my grandma's 80th birthday

oh, and a house to take care of - argh sleep is not happening until november 5th

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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OMG...i need to go through this list ASAP!

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by jettahot

Im nervous hearing you talk about it...
Where is this list?

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haven't updated it in a few days but here it is

JULY
- Get pictures of mom & dad wedding photo and print for reception (by 7/30)
- Get photos for memorial table (by 7/30)
- Book honeymoon excursions (by 7/31)
- Go see mom’s/nanny/maureen gowns (7/30)
- Make final payment on invitations (7/30)
- Receive invitations (by 7/31)
- Start teeth whitening (7/30)
- Number response cards to cross reference w/ invite list (by 7/30)
- Purchase stamps for invitations once I can weigh them (by 7/30)
- Finalize Must Take Photo List (by 7/30)
- Finalize Song List (including special songs: Bridal Party Entrance, Parent Entrance, Cake Cutting, First Dance, Mother/Son Dance, Father/Daughter Dance, Bouquet Toss, Garter Toss, Bridal Party Procession, Bridal Procession, Recessional)
- Hair Trial with Headpiece (7/30)
- Daniella first fitting (7/27)

AUGUST
- Send out/hand cancel invitations in first week of August (8/8)
- Make sure bridesmaids schedule fittings for August/September/October (Michaela before she moves to Boston)
- Purchase undergarments
- Book rehearsal dinner site
- Make bathroom baskets
- Buy items for and prep OOT welcome bags
- Tell CHCC about wedding cake (vanilla cake, vanilla buttercream, chocolate fudge and raspberry fruit filling)
- Pick menu with CHCC. Get copies of CHCC menus and personalize with rhinestones.
- Meeting with Flowers by Brian 8/20 to view centerpiece
- Determine readings for ceremony
- Determine music for ceremony
- Set up table at home how I want it to be replicated at the RH and take photos
- Gown Fitting (8/30)

SEPTEMBER
- Get marriage license by 9/15 and schedule in take session with Father James
- Get groomsmen, dads, grandpas, Jason to order tuxes (by 9/10)
- Order RD invites (9/15)
- Marriage License (9/16) (Link for all info)
- Schedule meeting with Father James for end of September/early October
- Acquire Memory Candle / Unity Candle
- Plan ceremony at church (and finalize programs)
- Meet with Father James and Brother Fran
- Give Affidavits of Freedom to Marry to Father James
- Fill out travel documents for cruise
- Finalize excursions for cruise
- Buy and wrap parent gifts?
- Wrap bridal party gifts (9/1)
- Start inquiring into grooms cake and order grooms cake for rehearsal
- Wrap Jason wedding present
- Start seating arrangements
- Break in wedding day shoes
- Make up signature drink and name
- Choose tablecloth colors
- Order chair covers
- Make copies of contracts, seating chart for RH, guest list, vendor information, BP information for DOC
- Second Fitting 9/20
- Record/Make/Wrap favors
- RSVPs due September 26th! Call all guests who have not responded by then
- Final Fitting 9/30

OCTOBER
- Meet with Father James to finalize ceremony details (end of month)
- Get hair cut (10/15)
- Order Escort Cards as soon as all RSVPs are in from Tessa (10/1)
- Send out RD invites early in the month (by 10/1 latest)
- FINAL DOC list for day of
- FINAL must take photo list
- FINAL song list
- Make sure BMs pick up gowns (by 10/5)
- Confirm grooms cake arrangements for rehearsal (by 10/15)
- Give Bridal Party their thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Give parents thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Make and print programs for wedding (by 10/10)
- Pack for honeymoon (before rehearsal on 10/28)
- Give final count to CHCC two weeks before wedding
- Finalize list of tips
- Get money for tips from bank (10/27)
- Rehearsal 10/28
- Finalize seating arrangements – post it notes for people!
- NAIR night before rehearsal (10/27)
- Waxing two nights before rehearsal (10/26)
- Schedule Nail appointment for day before wedding (11/3)
- Attend Bachelorette party
- E-mail and print directions for drivers of transport vehicles
- Submit a newspaper wedding announcement
- Pick up wedding gown (10/5)
- Bring hat from bridal shower to rehearsal and marriage license (10/28)
- Confirm Honeymoon reservations
- Order bagels/sandwiches for groom and groomsmen and bridesmaids for day of (10/28)
- Tell Pete he’s in charge of cardbox
- Assign someone to hand out programs at ceremony
- Finalize wedding day timeline and send it to all vendors (10/30)
- Make pew bows by 10/30

NOVEMBER
- Final headcount due 11/2 to Sharon/Mait’r D
- 11/2 - Pack up and drop off all things needed for reception
- 11/2 - Massage
- Place tips for each vendor in tip envelopes
- Take money out of bank for rest of payments (11/1)
- Wrap B-pic book and give to Jason night of wedding
- Prepare day-of emergency kit
- 11/3 – Flowers by Brian to view, drop off pew bows/bouquet wraps, final payment
- 11/3 Manicure/Pedicure
- Last minute packing for honeymoon (11/3)
- Make sure something old, new, blue, etc
- Bring marriage license and stamped address envelope to ceremony for officiant to sign
- Have empty boxes ready and labeled for items needed to be taken by mom home from reception
- Confirm time with mom to travel to honeymoon
- Arrange transportation back home after HM

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Holy sh*t lee! Way to give me a heart attack! LOL

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by jettahot

Im nervous hearing you talk about it...
Where is this list?

---

haven't updated it in a few days but here it is

JULY
- Get pictures of mom & dad wedding photo and print for reception (by 7/30)
- Get photos for memorial table (by 7/30)
- Book honeymoon excursions (by 7/31)
- Go see mom’s/nanny/maureen gowns (7/30)
- Make final payment on invitations (7/30)
- Receive invitations (by 7/31)
- Start teeth whitening (7/30)
- Number response cards to cross reference w/ invite list (by 7/30)
- Purchase stamps for invitations once I can weigh them (by 7/30)
- Finalize Must Take Photo List (by 7/30)
- Finalize Song List (including special songs: Bridal Party Entrance, Parent Entrance, Cake Cutting, First Dance, Mother/Son Dance, Father/Daughter Dance, Bouquet Toss, Garter Toss, Bridal Party Procession, Bridal Procession, Recessional)
- Hair Trial with Headpiece (7/30)
- Daniella first fitting (7/27)

AUGUST
- Send out/hand cancel invitations in first week of August (8/8)
- Make sure bridesmaids schedule fittings for August/September/October (Michaela before she moves to Boston)
- Purchase undergarments
- Book rehearsal dinner site
- Make bathroom baskets
- Buy items for and prep OOT welcome bags
- Tell CHCC about wedding cake (vanilla cake, vanilla buttercream, chocolate fudge and raspberry fruit filling)
- Pick menu with CHCC. Get copies of CHCC menus and personalize with rhinestones.
- Meeting with Flowers by Brian 8/20 to view centerpiece
- Determine readings for ceremony
- Determine music for ceremony
- Set up table at home how I want it to be replicated at the RH and take photos
- Gown Fitting (8/30)

SEPTEMBER
- Get marriage license by 9/15 and schedule in take session with Father James
- Get groomsmen, dads, grandpas, Jason to order tuxes (by 9/10)
- Order RD invites (9/15)
- Marriage License (9/16) (Link for all info)
- Schedule meeting with Father James for end of September/early October
- Acquire Memory Candle / Unity Candle
- Plan ceremony at church (and finalize programs)
- Meet with Father James and Brother Fran
- Give Affidavits of Freedom to Marry to Father James
- Fill out travel documents for cruise
- Finalize excursions for cruise
- Buy and wrap parent gifts?
- Wrap bridal party gifts (9/1)
- Start inquiring into grooms cake and order grooms cake for rehearsal
- Wrap Jason wedding present
- Start seating arrangements
- Break in wedding day shoes
- Make up signature drink and name
- Choose tablecloth colors
- Order chair covers
- Make copies of contracts, seating chart for RH, guest list, vendor information, BP information for DOC
- Second Fitting 9/20
- Record/Make/Wrap favors
- RSVPs due September 26th! Call all guests who have not responded by then
- Final Fitting 9/30

OCTOBER
- Meet with Father James to finalize ceremony details (end of month)
- Get hair cut (10/15)
- Order Escort Cards as soon as all RSVPs are in from Tessa (10/1)
- Send out RD invites early in the month (by 10/1 latest)
- FINAL DOC list for day of
- FINAL must take photo list
- FINAL song list
- Make sure BMs pick up gowns (by 10/5)
- Confirm grooms cake arrangements for rehearsal (by 10/15)
- Give Bridal Party their thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Give parents thank you gifts at rehearsal dinner
- Make and print programs for wedding (by 10/10)
- Pack for honeymoon (before rehearsal on 10/28)
- Give final count to CHCC two weeks before wedding
- Finalize list of tips
- Get money for tips from bank (10/27)
- Rehearsal 10/28
- Finalize seating arrangements – post it notes for people!
- NAIR night before rehearsal (10/27)
- Waxing two nights before rehearsal (10/26)
- Schedule Nail appointment for day before wedding (11/3)
- Attend Bachelorette party
- E-mail and print directions for drivers of transport vehicles
- Submit a newspaper wedding announcement
- Pick up wedding gown (10/5)
- Bring hat from bridal shower to rehearsal and marriage license (10/28)
- Confirm Honeymoon reservations
- Order bagels/sandwiches for groom and groomsmen and bridesmaids for day of (10/28)
- Tell Pete he’s in charge of cardbox
- Assign someone to hand out programs at ceremony
- Finalize wedding day timeline and send it to all vendors (10/30)
- Make pew bows by 10/30

NOVEMBER
- Final headcount due 11/2 to Sharon/Mait’r D
- 11/2 - Pack up and drop off all things needed for reception
- 11/2 - Massage
- Place tips for each vendor in tip envelopes
- Take money out of bank for rest of payments (11/1)
- Wrap B-pic book and give to Jason night of wedding
- Prepare day-of emergency kit
- 11/3 – Flowers by Brian to view, drop off pew bows/bouquet wraps, final payment
- 11/3 Manicure/Pedicure
- Last minute packing for honeymoon (11/3)
- Make sure something old, new, blue, etc
- Bring marriage license and stamped address envelope to ceremony for officiant to sign
- Have empty boxes ready and labeled for items needed to be taken by mom home from reception
- Confirm time with mom to travel to honeymoon
- Arrange transportation back home after HM

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Holy sh*t lee! Way to give me a heart attack! LOL

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sorry ashley!!!! you prob have most of it done anyway

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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lisa - love your list!!!!

can i ask... what did you mean by memorial poem?

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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lisa - love your list!!!!

can i ask... what did you mean by memorial poem?

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thanks!

i was just gonna put a little poem on the table next to pictures of our lost loved ones

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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lisa - love your list!!!!

can i ask... what did you mean by memorial poem?

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thanks!

i was just gonna put a little poem on the table next to pictures of our lost loved ones

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Can I ask where you are placing it in the room? That's beautiful! I am doing a memorial candle for my mom. trying to decide where to put it.

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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lisa - love your list!!!!

can i ask... what did you mean by memorial poem?

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thanks!

i was just gonna put a little poem on the table next to pictures of our lost loved ones

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Can I ask where you are placing it in the room? That's beautiful! I am doing a memorial candle for my mom. trying to decide where to put it.

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i havent decided yet, but i was thinking of doing a whole table of pictures, a candle, and a framed poem - perhaps somewhere towards the front of the room when you first walk in since it's not really something that has to be 'guarded' in the way your cake or card box should be

HTH

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

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Posted by leesah85

guys, im right here, you don't have to talk about me 'behind my back'

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lisa - love your list!!!!

can i ask... what did you mean by memorial poem?

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thanks!

i was just gonna put a little poem on the table next to pictures of our lost loved ones

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Can I ask where you are placing it in the room? That's beautiful! I am doing a memorial candle for my mom. trying to decide where to put it.

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i havent decided yet, but i was thinking of doing a whole table of pictures, a candle, and a framed poem - perhaps somewhere towards the front of the room when you first walk in since it's not really something that has to be 'guarded' in the way your cake or card box should be

HTH

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Yes this does help! thank you!