Left at the altar...

Original post by MrsLarrea2B

Jun 04, 2008 07:29 PM

If your FH left you at the altar, would you get back with him a year later because he was sorry ???

LiLMich Posted: Jun 04, 2008 08:53 PM

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Nooooooooooooooo wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!

Firkx3 Posted: Jun 04, 2008 09:03 PM

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Not a chance in hell

ace730 Posted: Jun 04, 2008 09:09 PM

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No F'ing way. To do something like that is a supreme act of selfishness and childishness, neither of which are traits I would want in a husband or father to my children.

flairforfashion Posted: Jun 04, 2008 09:18 PM

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Fat chance on that!

lilpiggy742 Posted: Jun 04, 2008 09:20 PM

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i dont even want to think of that happening...but i dont think i could...unless he wanted to really get married and pay for the whole thing himself...i dont know..this is a hard question!!!!!!!!!!

ELluvsMB Posted: Jun 04, 2008 10:02 PM

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no way what so ever unless he had a good excuse like he was in the hospital hah.

JnA823 Posted: Jun 04, 2008 10:32 PM

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Posted by SOTHISISLOVE53109

I'd be so hurt and it would take me a long time....but I do feel that people get cold feet and sometimes just get so nervous about their life changing.....I'd have to say YES I would take him back because of all the times I was upset with him and told him that - that's it were done...he would deserve a second shot...but that's after he paid me back every penny!

I definately agree. I would have to say if there was a reasonable answer then yes.

Kristy1226 Posted: Jun 04, 2008 10:38 PM

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It depends on the situation. But i probably wouldn't go back to him. If someone has cold feet they should talk about it prior to the big day. Because chances are those thoughts are thought a few days before. I was watching WE tv a few weeks back and some guy stood up this women. She was truly upset and had every right to be. She stayed and went the the reception hall with all of the guests and had a party anyway. She later on took him back and they eloped in Vegas against her families wishes.

MrsInglima Posted: Jun 04, 2008 10:45 PM

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I know FH would never do that...

but definitely not. I had issues like that with my last ex and the fact is you either know or you don't know. There isn't any pussyfooting about it.

Plus I have too much self respect for myself. If he doesn't want me all the time, someone else will.