ok I have NO idea what I'm suppose to do.... do you go to city hall, like nyc? go to the courthouses in Mineola?
When am I suppose to go? How soon before the wedding?
I'm so confused!
SoonToBeMrsScott
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you mean to get your marriage license 2 months before the wedding I believe
Dee0522
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Once you are 60 days out you can get it, but it has to be 24 hours before your ceremony. If you do it in the city, you only need your passport but if you go to a town hall on LI you usually need your birth certificate also (at least for Brookhaven town you do). I'm getting mine on Friday... think I waited long enough???
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you are applying for a license to get married, you wont get legally married there. They do have chapels for those who wish to do so but you are only getting a license and you do it no more than 60 days before the wedding bc it expires after 60 days
Annoulak
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Check out the 'Planning' section of this website...it has a lot of info about how to get a marriage license in NY State
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you are applying for a license to get married, you wont get legally married there. They do have chapels for those who wish to do so but you are only getting a license and you do it no more than 60 days before the wedding bc it expires after 60 days
wait why does it expire? I guess I would have to do it in nyc cause FH is from Cali? I guess I have to call and find out the detail... i'm so lost!
when are u legally married then? it doesnt count if you get married in church right?
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You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
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You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
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You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
Ususally you sign it right after the ceremony...it's done very discreetly.
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You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
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Check out the 'Planning' section of this website...it has a lot of info about how to get a marriage license in NY State
thats the greatest page on here - i discoverred it the other day after 2 years!
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you are applying for a license to get married, you wont get legally married there. They do have chapels for those who wish to do so but you are only getting a license and you do it no more than 60 days before the wedding bc it expires after 60 days
wait why does it expire? I guess I would have to do it in nyc cause FH is from Cali? I guess I have to call and find out the detail... i'm so lost!
when are u legally married then? it doesnt count if you get married in church right?
You and FH both have to appear together, in person, at any town or city hall in the entire state of NY (if this is the state in which you're getting married)....it does not matter which one. So if he's in CA, he has to get here sometime before the wedding (w/in 60 days of it) and you must go get it together. It expires because once you actually get married there's no longer a need for it be active. A marriage license is basically an application to be married in the state of NY, once you're actually married, the 'application' isn't necessary to be valid, cause now you're married. You can get it anytime w/in 60 days of your wedding but, you have to get it at least 24 hours beforehand, so don't go the day before becuase it won't be valid.
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Thanks ladies for you help! I am know well informed!
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You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
Ususally you sign it right after the ceremony...it's done very discreetly.
We signed ours at our rehearsal, as did our witnesses, the Priest signed it after the Mass. We had our marriage certificate waiting in our mailbox when we got home from our honeymoon.
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Posted by bluekat16
You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
Ususally you sign it right after the ceremony...it's done very discreetly.
We signed ours at our rehearsal, as did our witnesses, the Priest signed it after the Mass. We had our marriage certificate waiting in our mailbox when we got home from our honeymoon.
oh this is what i had posted earlier...i could've sworn that when i went to a rehearsal in november they had signed papers. I was sitting and they were further from us but i know i saw them sign something
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Posted by bluekat16
You get your marriage license, with that license you have 60 days to get married either by a church, justice of the peace, anyone licensed to perform marriages in NY State. When tou get married at a church your officiant and your and your witnesses(MOH & BM) will sign it and the church takes care of sending it to the state. After the state recieves it they will send you back your marriage certificate, which justifies that you are legally married.
HTH.
ahhhh I see! lol, thank you! I'm so clueless,
ok one more dumb question. ... when do you sign the paper? From the weddings i've been to i never see the priest/decon sign papers and stuff during the ceremony. lol
Ususally you sign it right after the ceremony...it's done very discreetly.
We signed ours at our rehearsal, as did our witnesses, the Priest signed it after the Mass. We had our marriage certificate waiting in our mailbox when we got home from our honeymoon.
oh this is what i had posted earlier...i could've sworn that when i went to a rehearsal in november they had signed papers. I was sitting and they were further from us but i know i saw them sign something
I've always seen it signed right after the ceremony..but most wedding I've been to haven't been catholic weddings..so maybe tat's why...or that's just how that church handled it.