OK Ladies, I know none of us have the 'Perfect Relationship' where we don't fight with each other once in a while. People always say 'A good argument once in a while is healthy'
How much do you and FH argue and how long does it usually last? Who usually gives in first or is it a mutual thing?
prinses777
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Our fights last for like 5 min and then we get over it... I really wouldn't say that we FIGHT... we just argue sometimes if we have different points of views... We get over it very easily... I guess thats a good thing!
D's Girl
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Posted by prinses777
Our fights last for like 5 min and then we get over it... I really wouldn't say that we FIGHT... we just argue sometimes if we have different points of views... We get over it very easily... I guess thats a good thing!
I changed the Post to arguments, because I agree fight is a little harsh
sugarkube4
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Larry and I fight all the time.. sometimes its about stupid things like him not understanding the volume and tone of my voice and then sometimes we just have knock down, drag out, calling off the wedding and seperating our belongings fights!!
He's stubborn, but I am more stubborn and malicious and vindictive to boot.. so we cool off about the same time.. him, sometimes longer but I don't feed into him like to baby him, I just leave him alone and he comes around..
Soon2BeMrs2006
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I like to call them spats and I hate arguing, I'm the type that can't be angry for very long, so even if I have a spat with FH an hour later I'm over it and its like it didn't happen.
D's Girl
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Posted by sugarkube4
Larry and I fight all the time.. sometimes its about stupid things like him not understanding the volume and tone of my voice and then sometimes we just have knock down, drag out, calling off the wedding and seperating our belongings fights!!
He's stubborn, but I am more stubborn and malicious and vindictive to boot.. so we cool off about the same time.. him, sometimes longer but I don't feed into him like to baby him, I just leave him alone and he comes around..
Sounds like our FH's came from the same mold We are both as stubborn as they come, me a little more. We always argue about mis-communication and tone of each other's voice. Our arguments do not last long, but some defiantly go down in the books. In the end we talk about everything and the one thing that I love about Donnie is, he is never afraid to say 'Sorry'
trish71407
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Rich and I argue, however we have never really had a bad fight! We argue over stupid things, mostly because we live 2 hours away and it's hard sometimes! Im very stubborn, im trying to be better about it though!
sugarkube4
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Posted by sugarkube4
Larry and I fight all the time.. sometimes its about stupid things like him not understanding the volume and tone of my voice and then sometimes we just have knock down, drag out, calling off the wedding and seperating our belongings fights!!
He's stubborn, but I am more stubborn and malicious and vindictive to boot.. so we cool off about the same time.. him, sometimes longer but I don't feed into him like to baby him, I just leave him alone and he comes around..
Sounds like our FH's came from the same mold We are both as stubborn as they come, me a little more. We always argue about mis-communication and tone of each other's voice. Our arguments do not last long, but some defiantly go down in the books. In the end we talk about everything and the one thing that I love about Donnie is, he is never afraid to say 'Sorry'
exactly!! when Larry is nasty and nitpicky.. he wil usually send me a text telling me he's sorry and that always makes me feel better
lilqtpie2181
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I would say 90% of our arguments are about stupid things like where are we gonna go eat or what do u wanna do tonight...loll. I know its silly but they only last a few minutes..... when we get into serious fights they dont last long but boy are we loud. we start to push eachothers buttons on purpose. Im SURE your girls do this too. We laugh about it afterward....
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werock0709
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We have arguments over the stupidest things. I hold grudges, and he has to do alot to get my forgiveness, if you want to call it that. Hmmmmmmmm. I just make it hard for him I guess. In 3 years we have NEVER fought. I think my son has alot to do with it. My son's father was verbally and physically abusive towards me, so I know Darren wanted to show my son as well as myself how a person is supposed to be treated. And to also ad, we don't scream or yell in this house, AT ALL. My son has enough bad memories of his father doing this to me, and he was only 1 1/2 at the time.
JazzyT
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We really don't argue often but when we do its usually a doozie
2Be1
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Posted by sugarkube4
Larry and I fight all the time.. sometimes its about stupid things like him not understanding the volume and tone of my voice and then sometimes we just have knock down, drag out, calling off the wedding and seperating our belongings fights!!
He's stubborn, but I am more stubborn and malicious and vindictive to boot.. so we cool off about the same time.. him, sometimes longer but I don't feed into him like to baby him, I just leave him alone and he comes around..
Sounds like me and FH too both of us can be very argumentative and always like to be right. We usually argue over something so STUPID. Most of the time he acts as the mediator but sometimes I'll give in first. One time I got so mad I told him I was going to sell my engagement ring on Ebay
Missladybug15
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we bicker a couple of times a week, usually over stupid stuff, but he is soooo stubborn sometimes, I can fight and be fine like 5 mins after, it takes him a little longer to get over it, what a baby
tonimike
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me & my FH fight sometimes. I think its unhealthy not to,, Im a grudge holder though, He is not.. He thinks after a blowout all is said so get over it , & me I give the silent treatment . he hatessss that....
We mostly argue about missunderstanding each others tone of voice.. I say something & he says I sounded one way & I didnt mean to . That kinda thing,, Plus we argue about my Job,, He can never reach me & he likes to check in every few hours & Im never near the phone.
Other than that m being we live together its hard sometimes .. That alone was a nut to crack for me. I was very independent b4 we met ..
He was married b4 & has 2 kids. His ex is a nightmare psyco.. So we get the kids alot , which is cool with me I love em like they were mine.. But that was a adjustment for me , Single, working 2 jobs, one was bartending & the poof, meet the man of my dreams , move in together & alas , wedding times ahead ,,
Its gone fast , but I wouldnt change a thing,,
& hey , You fight , but YOU always make up , thats the fun part , right girls,,
ntunison
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its always over stupid stuff... I'm very stubborn and want things my way, he is very 'lazy' and we're both extremely selfish - so we DO FIGHT. but it usually blows over quick...
ZuzusPetals
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Im stubborn FI is so laid back so when we fight its usually because Im mad at him over something so trivial! Of course I would never admit this to him!
brittny817
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Most if not all of our arguements are about the most stupid things like should we go out tonight, what should we eat, should we go to the gym...very lame. My worst character flaw is a total lack of patience. Mike is VERY patient but can be a little on the annoying side. He has a habit of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time basically not thinking before speaking.
BUT lately (5 minutes ago) we have been bickering about $$$ bc we are saving for the wedding, honeymoon and a house. He's a born saver and I'm not. He can't understand why I need to get my nails and hair done or buy a pair of shoes, actually 7 pair of shoes.
Truth be told I can never stay made at him for any length of time...he's too cute and super sweet.
Athee07
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oohh we argue... actually I just got into a fight with him about job searching this morning ... I cant take his lazyness most of the times!!!!! But i swear he has a heart of gold and always no matter what says im sorry first ( im such a stubborn gemini girl! )
lilred13
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usually we argue once a month It doesn't last long. we walk away from each other and talk later. We don't argue often though because there is no point we never get anywhere because we are both thick headed. I'd rather talk out the problem than scream and yell
MNM7to7
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We definitely argue and usually its over stupid stuff (the biggest thing is 'what do you want to eat'.). I think we've had 2 major fights in our 8 years together so I guess that's good. And no matter how mad I am, he always does something to make me laught and the argument is over.
