ok so something's wrong with me...i've been breaking out, hair falling out when i shower and headaches from clenching my teeth...i need to do some yoga...
only 4 months left for limos/shuttles, tuxes, favors, all the Diy, invites assembly, buy accessories, gifts for bp, hair/mu trials, finalize brunch or rehearsal dinner...not to mention fittings and all the final appts...oh and still in med schoollllll ahhh feeling overwhelmed
isn't this supposed to be a happy time?
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I swear my hair is falling out too! And no matter how hard I try, I cannot sleep- I sit up thinking of all the things I want to do!!!!
It IS a happy time, just a hectic one too. Sigh!
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OMG A! I just realized u're gonna be one of the first ones if not the first bride to get married on 2011
monkeemunk
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ive just acquired stomach problems! hellooooo stress!!!!!!!
Neeks
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I seriously cannot believe you have 4 mths left
jaimeann34
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at times i want the time to go faster and the most of the time i wish it would slow down....
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Posted by jaimeann34
at times i want the time to go faster and the most of the time i wish it would slow down....
youre getting married on my bday! great date!
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ok so something's wrong with me...i've been breaking out, hair falling out when i shower and headaches from clenching my teeth...i need to do some yoga...
only 4 months left for limos/shuttles, tuxes, favors, all the Diy, invites assembly, buy accessories, gifts for bp, hair/mu trials, finalize brunch or rehearsal dinner...not to mention fittings and all the final appts...oh and still in med schoollllll ahhh feeling overwhelmed
isn't this supposed to be a happy time?
OMG I can't believe you're down to just 4 months!!! time flew!! yayyy!!!
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Posted by sandybeaches115
ok so something's wrong with me...i've been breaking out, hair falling out when i shower and headaches from clenching my teeth...i need to do some yoga...
only 4 months left for limos/shuttles, tuxes, favors, all the Diy, invites assembly, buy accessories, gifts for bp, hair/mu trials, finalize brunch or rehearsal dinner...not to mention fittings and all the final appts...oh and still in med schoollllll ahhh feeling overwhelmed
isn't this supposed to be a happy time?
You are 3 days after me.
Relax you will get through it. Take 1 thing at a time and you can do it.
Invite Assembly - I have 5 sisters who are helping me do invite assembly next week. Get your BP together to help.
Limos - I still need limos too but the way i look at it is you might get cheaper the closer the time so not worrying about this. I call 1 or 2 companies every so often to make sure there is still availability. Or if you are set on 1 company book them.
BP Gifts - Set 1 day aside for this.
Tuxes - Set 2 hours aside for tuxes. We went to Mens Warehouse in Forrest Hills on Tuesday and Roland is so helpful. I spoke with him about the bad reviews but he said he would look after us. We dealt with him last year and had no problems at all.
Trials - If you have an event coming up book trials for the same day so you will look really good for that and get an idea of how long it lasts. Or else another option is to do trials the day of your fitting to see the whole package. Then plan a night out. (No point in wasting)
The rest will fall into place. My BP are all in Ireland and i am doing most of this by myself working 10 hour days. Get your MOH or Mother to help you book the RD and Brunch.
I could be all wrong though. I am still wondering when the nerves and stress will kick in.
Feel free to Fm since we are so close in dates maybe we can help each other out!! Best of Luck.
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Aw, try not to get stressed!!!! Some of those items shouldn't take long if you have help. Also, could your FMIL help book the rehearsal dinner or anything like that? It wasn't until this site that I realized how many brides book/coordinate the rd themselves. I always thought that was for the parents to do!
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i think were all going to be like that just try to breathe get a massage do yoga
do whatever you can youll get it all done
and somehow, 4 months is still a decent amount of time i think even tho to us it doesnt look like it
haha
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this is the home stretch for you. best thing you can do is make a list/timeline and try to follow it.
just remember why you're doing all this - to marry your best friend!
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Posted by BrideAS
this is the home stretch for you. best thing you can do is make a list/timeline and try to follow it.
just remember why you're doing all this - to marry your best friend!
I totally agree! It will all be worth it in the end!
