LI , I HAVE A PROBLEM

DUCKS2001 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:01 AM

LI , I HAVE A PROBLEM

ON FRI FH AND HIS BROS WENT OUT FOR BACH PARTY ANYWAY IT WAS THE WORST NIGHT OF HIS LIFE.

HIM AND HIS 2 BROS FOUGHT SO MUCH , HE TRIED CALLING HIS OLDER BRO, BUT HE REFUSES TO SPEAK TO HIM.

MY WEDDING IS IN 2 WEEEKS AND FH IS SO MELLOW AND DOWN, ITS SAD.

THINKS WERE SAID THAT SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN SAID AND SOME WERE HURTFUL, THEY WERE DRINKING AND THINGS CAMEOUT.

BOTH BROS ARE IN BRIDAL PARTY AND OLDER BROS KIDS UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!

FH DID NOT TELL HIS PARENTS BUT I HOPE THIS PASSES ANY ADVICE IS WELCOME.

JohnnysGirl350 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:11 AM

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So sorry to hear about this... I have no advice, but here are some hugs...

missgwife Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:21 AM

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Posted by JohnnysGirl350

So sorry to hear about this... I have no advice, but here are some hugs...

Same here

EGreene79 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:28 AM

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I have 2 brothers and sometimes when they drink they fight. They're just such idiots, but from my experience they get past it. We've had situations where we've all said really hurtful things to each other - in fact we went to a hockey game earlier this year and one of my brothers got drunk and said some really hurtful things to me to the point where I actually started crying. It took me some time, but I already know he's an idiot so I have to take what he says with a grain of salt, and get over it. I'm sure they'll get past it - that's what family does.

shellnroc Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:34 AM

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So sorry Christine!
I really hope it blows over. Maybe after a few days they can talk about what they said to eachother. I agree with EGreene79, I have been in situations where I have fought with my siblings and said hurtful things. After a few days we get over it

With 2 weeks to go before the wedding, you both should be Happy not sad!

ewickens Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:45 AM

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So sorry to hear this Christine!!! for you both!

I have this problem with my brothers as well! I speak to each of my brother's, but they don't speak to one another.

The one agreement we came to b/c no one brother wants to deal with the other is that they each agreed to put their differences aside in order to celebrate with FH and I. I really can't ask for anything more. Additionally, we are seaiting my brother's at different tables at the wedding to placate the situation!!

If you want to talk Christine, FM me, I'm hear to listen!!!

beautyq115 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 11:49 AM

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My advice would be don't get in the middle and let them settle it themselves

DUCKS2001 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 01:33 PM

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THANKS GIRLS I AM FDEFINETLY NOT GETTING INVOLVED AND THEY WILL HAVE TO SETTLE IT.

I WILL KEEP YOU POSTED IF ANYTHING CHANGES

THANKS MICHELLE AND BETSY

ewickens Posted: Jun 25, 2006 01:35 PM

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Posted by DUCKS2001

THANKS GIRLS I AM FDEFINETLY NOT GETTING INVOLVED AND THEY WILL HAVE TO SETTLE IT.

I WILL KEEP YOU POSTED IF ANYTHING CHANGES

THANKS MICHELLE AND BETSY

patticakes Posted: Jun 25, 2006 02:58 PM

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Oh my gosh, I don't even know what advice to give but they have to realize, alcohol can make you say things you don't mean. I hope it works out....Are you close with his brother-maybe you can talk with him????

mrszg2be Posted: Jun 25, 2006 04:04 PM

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why does the drama come closer to the wedding? Almost date twin. All you can do is say. Honey we are getting maried in 2 weeks. don't dwell on the negative. I know you want FH to be excited like you. But don't let that steal your happiness either. Men sometimes make up faster than us women.

DUCKS2001 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 08:32 PM

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no return phojne calls from either brother.. ugh!

MrsStefan Posted: Jun 25, 2006 09:02 PM

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Oh Christine, Im so sorry to hear about this. My advice would be to stay out of it but just be there for your FH. I hope the situation passes

shellnroc Posted: Jun 25, 2006 09:04 PM

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Posted by DUCKS2001

THANKS GIRLS I AM FDEFINETLY NOT GETTING INVOLVED AND THEY WILL HAVE TO SETTLE IT.

I WILL KEEP YOU POSTED IF ANYTHING CHANGES

THANKS MICHELLE AND BETSY

Your Welcome Sweetie!!!

I hope it ALL works out quickly!!!!!

DUCKS2001 Posted: Jun 25, 2006 10:36 PM

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me too

FrogGirl0917 Posted: Jun 26, 2006 01:12 AM

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Hugs!

smurray Posted: Jun 26, 2006 09:34 AM

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I'm sorry to hear this is happening so close to your big day, but keep in mind that most men aren't like females when they get into arguements. They let things just pass by w/o holding grudges. Hopefully this is the same in your case.