Limo Question- or maybe Etiquette question..a little long
Ok, my FH and I have small families and we aren't doing a bp. I have no grandparents left. FH has one grandmother who lives in west islip with her daughter and the family. He also has a step-grandmother who lives in NJ by herself (about 1.5 hours away). The step-grandmother is on his fathers side.
FH is from Ronkonkoma. For the limo's I was originally going to include FH, his father, and his step grandmother (and maybe whoever he picks to hold the rings at the Church). The reason I'm doing this is because the step-grandmother will most likely be driving herself from NJ to Ronkonkoma the night before the wedding and staying at his father's house that night.
So I figured they will get dropped off at my Church and then the limo will pick up myself, my parents and my sister and drive us to the Church.
So, my question is... is it wrong that we're not including his biological grandmother in the limo? I mean, she can get a ride to the Church with either her daughter or with one of her grandchildren. Plus, she lives in West Islip so I can't see having the limo driver make a stop there (It's on the south shore of LI so it's not on the way at all.) And then I don't want FH's aunt to complain about why she isn't invited to the limo.