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Listen Girls - My BOTW Request

Original post by amandamichael

I know i have posted this a zillion times in the past week, but really I have to get this out for the last time.

I know that wedding planning is stressful, and that as the year winds down we are getting closer and closer. Trust me, throw a ***** FMIl into that mix and your head would spin

what i cant understand is why everyone is so quick to jump down eachothers throats over everything lately esp. considering most of us are complete and total strangers to eachother-- why fight with someone you dont even know? now, hold on before you yell at me, i know we all have created friendship and relationships and spend a lot of time talking to eachother and getting to know eachother, but for the most part, were all internet LIW friends and while i think its great- really, why are we fighting?

i have to tell you, FSIL got engaged before I did and i stumbled across LIW, didnt think about it again until FH proposed and to the 2011 boards i came ( we picked our date within weeks of our engagement haha i was crazy, still am) anywayy- i just feel like the whole atmosphere lately on the boards has been so different.
so many girls were sooooo helpful, helping me make good decisions, avoid bad ones, and giving me ideas i wouldnt have thought of on my own

somewhere along all of this, in the past few months everyones claws have started to come out, jumping down eachothers throats bc we dont like when others feel different then us, and its, well, its sad to see

there was a period in time here when we were like 1 big family, now were like 12

so really, id like to spend this week trying to be nice to eachother again, and im sure you girsl think im nuts and well partly i am. but seriously, do me a favor and make me a happy BOTW
if your going to yell back at someone, please write the comment and delete it before hitting post

if you need to vent bc ur really mad at someone else but just wanna take it out on another girl--- FM me and ill listen to your 300 page vent if needed, lord knows when my shoes were being held hostage i vented every 20 minutes and so many of you girls were there to listen., so of course id loveeeee to return the favor bc well, you were there for me.

At any rate, please give me the old 2011ers at least for the week haha
if you girls want to have jello and pudding mud fights, do it monday morning, but lets be nice to eachother again.

come on girlsssss


I pledge no more drama, no more drama STARTING, nothing will be coming from me, unless you try to steal my shoes, my FH or my adorable puppy, and then, well then its war

now its someone elses turn

VCanizalez Posted:

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So right Amanda...




So sweet of u...

I hope the girls get the msge u sendin.. U dont mean any harm i know...
And i feel the same way as u... I so miss the LIW E-family we had couple of months ago...
But hopefully it comes back
rendel Posted:

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Well said!!!!!!!!!!!!!
meghan13 Posted:

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I agree.

All of us girls are different, have different visions for our weddings and our lives.

We need to learn to respect other peoples ideas and views.

We also need to not be overly sensitive and take things to heart. I'm sure when people say things on here it is not to be a personal attack.

Most of us have enough drama in our lives. We don't need to add it with people that quite honestly, we dont even know.

It's okay to disagree. Just be respectful and agree to disagree. You may hate my ideas and I may hate yours. But your ideas will look amazing you and your vision and mine look amazing to me.

Lets have fun ladies. I can't wait to see your weddings, pictures and reviews.
BellaRegina Posted:

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Well said
Danielle41209 Posted:

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carangel Posted:

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im pretty new to all of this, and did see a bit of caddyness on the TWOTY board, but realistically everyone has been nothing but super helpful...my experience has been good so far and i hope it stays that way!!
kfizz Posted:

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well said! I love coming on this site and want everyone to get along as well!

Bride2011 Posted:

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AMEN Amanda!!! I remember about a year ago when the 2011 boards were just picking up and there was a small group of 2011 brides we used to laugh and joke about all the fights that happened on the 2010 boards between girls. And I remember those girls telling us 2011 brides that our time to fight and argue would come eventually as the stress level increased closer to our wedding dates...And I was like that will never happen because us 2011 brides are not catty.....Let's keep the 2011 camaraderie going strong!!!

Jennielee15 Posted:

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ITA! Sometimes I read a post and then the responses are all mean and I just don't get it. I have to reread the post like a hundred times to see if I missed the point. I guess I'm just naive!
BrideAS Posted:

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not only do I agree because you're sooo right, but also because we have the same name

hiswifey2011 Posted:

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mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by Bride2011

AMEN Amanda!!! I remember about a year ago when the 2011 boards were just picking up and there was a small group of 2011 brides we used to laugh and joke about all the fights that happened on the 2010 boards between girls. And I remember those girls telling us 2011 brides that our time to fight and argue would come eventually as the stress level increased closer to our wedding dates...And I was like that will never happen because us 2011 brides are not catty.....Let's keep the 2011 camaraderie going strong!!!




Well said amanda!

and - to the post above - I remember those times when we all said we would never get like that... lets get back to those times! they were fun!
amandamichael Posted:

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Posted by BrideAS

not only do I agree because you're sooo right, but also because we have the same name




welll you have an amazing name sweetheart haha

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