My FI's Best man is gay and his boyfriend is my executive coordinator for the wedding. He is not going to the bachelor party, but expects to go to my bachelorette party. Some of the girls have been asking me if he was coming. Some feel uncomfortable. I think he will be fine, everyone always gets along with him Do you all think it is okay for him to come with us???
dm24angel
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YES I think its totally ok, and dont like the fact some of your friends feel uncomfortable...But I know people are different, and remeber thats THEIR problem, not yours or his, so Im sure they will get over it!
jpavig
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I think it's totally ok. As long as it's ok with you then it shouldn't be a problem.
SFP0214
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YES I think its totally ok, and dont like the fact some of your friends feel uncomfortable...But I know people are different, and remeber thats THEIR problem, not yours or his, so Im sure they will get over it!
Do people feel uncomfortable becuase he is gay or because he is male at the bach. party? i wouldn't want a male, gay or straight at a bach. party. It is supposed to be girl time!
angelbear217
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It's your party and as long as you are ok with it, it shouldn't matter what your friends think. Honestly he would probably feel more comforable at your party anyway.
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It's your party and as long as you are ok with it, it shouldn't matter what your friends think. Honestly he would probably feel more comforable at your party anyway.
DITTO! it's your party, and i think you should have who you want there.
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My FH's Bm is too, and they don't want to come to my bach party. I don't even know if his BF is going the FH's bach party!
That may be weird for them if they both go, you know, usually you can let loose a little because your significant other is at the other party!!