ok so my parents are divorced and i dont talk to my dad (his choice) no big deal but bc my father wasnt in my life i always looked up to my grandpop and my uncle . but more of my grandpop more then anything. So grandpop is walking me down the aisle and we are also doing the father daughter dance together.
My mom told my uncle that since he is my godfather and so on and so on, that i was going to pick out a song and do a dance with him like the father/daughter dance. WHICH IS NOT TRUE!!!! Then she calls me and trys to persuade me to do this dance bc she already told my uncle that we where doing this and we are not.
What am i suspose to do, i dont want to do this dance and i dont think i should have to
AMGBride2008
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Your mom needs to do some backtracking. She should call your uncle and explain the misunderstanding. If you do no want to do a special dance with him, than that is your choice, not your mom's.
mRm2008
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I guess you should speak to him directly since Mom has already mentioned it. You can tell him that you were not planning that and your Mom had misunderstood your plans. I'm sure he will understand
Kerin2804
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That is a tough one. Your mom should not have made promises without speaking to you. It is your day and the final decision is yours. SOmetines compromise is easier.