Live with or with out FH?????

Original post by Love_my_Freddybear

Aug 01, 2005 07:13 PM

We don't live together yet.................

Reason being is that I have a 5 year old. And if it were up to her, she'd want him to live with us!!! She loves him to death. Last night she asked if he could sleep over. She thinks it's a treat LOL!!!
But my choice is to wait. I want to do right by her and I want her to see us get married first. This is what works for me.
However, I can't wait to wake up every morning with my Freddybear!!!!

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:20 PM

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Posted by May05Bride

We lived together before marriage.
Honestly I would want my kids to live together before wedding, get to know one another before commiting to such a huge commitment.

I am NOT against living together before marriage at all. And the day my daughter is old enough and wants to live with her man, so be it. I will support her. I just want to give her the best guidance I can; knowing my part was done right!!! My Freddybear is her not her Father, but he is her DADDY!!!! And since I have the chance to show it to her like this..............why not! She is so impressionable at this young age. It's not a matter of it being right or wrong. Just something I chose to wait for.
I would love to live all together....and we will in just about 4 more months!!!! :

classylay-d Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:30 PM

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I'm not living with FH....

Mrs.Z Posted: Aug 01, 2005 10:52 PM

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we do too

lmykolyn12305 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 12:03 AM

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we do too

lrs2005 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 01:00 AM

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I live with my parents but I stay at DF's apartment on the weekends. I hate Mondays.

DebsNY Posted: Aug 02, 2005 01:03 AM

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we won't be living together until after the wedding

MrsA814 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 08:33 AM

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we do to for just about 3 years

Sweetpea130000 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 08:38 AM

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We have been living together officially for almost 2 years. We basically lived together for 2 years before that too.

IrishBride-05 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 09:13 AM

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FH moved in unofficially a month or so after we met. We have been living together officially since our engagement in May 2004. I highly recommend it

Ang&Rich Posted: Aug 02, 2005 09:21 AM

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Posted by neeniebean86

we lived together in sin before we were married... but with wedding planning, we didnt really have much time to sin, so it all evened out

Same here....we have been living together for 4 years of which we have been engaged for 2.

Pmpkn087 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 10:50 AM

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We live together and I love it! But, when we get married, we are fixing up our apartment so we can use all of our good stuff instead of the cheap stuff we bout when we first moved in together.

Pmpkn087 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 10:53 AM

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That's a good choice. My sister and I were 3 and 5 when my mom married my dad (not biological) and they did not live together until they got married. It was a treat for us when he moved in. It put the whole puzzle together. But, he did stay over a lot, but he was not there when we woke up in the morning. I guess my mom wanted to make sure we didn't have another man that was fully in our lives then gone, like we did before.

Beth1210 Posted: Aug 02, 2005 11:01 AM

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we live together- but only after we were engaged

mcaula Posted: Aug 02, 2005 11:40 AM

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Fh and I do not live togather yet we are waiting until after the wedding Too. He is slowly but surely moving stuff into our apartment (which is downstairs from my parents house) so that is the reason we do not live togather yet. We have to be traditional for my parents

But I can't wait until we are married and can wake up every morning to my sweetie

nicknmb Posted: Aug 02, 2005 12:40 PM

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FH and I bought a coop together and HE just moved in yesterday. I am a little jealous. But that's what we've decided to do. It makes everyone happy, so oh well - 3 months to go! I will stay on weekends though.

jeanla4c Posted: Aug 02, 2005 01:48 PM

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We waited until we were married for me to move into DH's house....always knew I wanted it this way and I have no regrets...but everyone/situation, etc is different!

103005FallBride Posted: Aug 02, 2005 03:43 PM

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We were only dating 8-9 months when we decided to move in together... That was 2 and half years ago...there was not one day that I ever regretted that decision.

I totally think you're making the right decision with your Freddybear and daughter. .