Livid.....

So I was able to get in touch with one of the 2 BM I haven't spoken to via Myspace (Yes I know sad).. And get this the reason why they haven't responded was because I never paid the money for the bridal shower back in July!!!

Lets see I believe the Mom and the MOH as suppose to pay.. Last minute they decide to get a tent which hops up the cost and to top it off I was out of work not getting paid on workers comp. which I told her. I was never reminded after I returned back and to be honest I have other things to worry about then a payment from July. So because of $125 they ignore me and act like children, rather then just bringing it up to me like 'Hey Sam remember how I had everyone pay for the shower well I need your payment'. So I'm furious and just not wanting to deal with juvinile bs.. I 'm about to send the money and just let it be.

2 less bridesmaids because of money that I didn't have back then.. I think its rediculous but apparently thats how we act now a days.. UGHHHH

Sorry Im just so stressed and not wanting to dealing with High school drama.

wow... this is kind of HS dramaish... im so sorry.. are you going to send them the money and not include them in your wedding?

why wouldnt they just talk to you abou this from the beginning??

My interpretation is that they're probably annoyed that you didn't pay your share (even though they added the tent) and now you want them to pay for their part in your wedding...

I agree that they should talk to you about and not be childish, but $125 is a lot of money and I'm glad you are going to pay them back.

ITA the mom and or BP are supposed to pay for the shower! How dare they ask you?!

SMH

wow that is high school....what r u psychic? people r just unreal sometimes

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Posted by MrsGarcia

$125 is alot.. espeically when your out of work at the time and to let someone know they ahve to pay this the day before it has to get paid in rediculous. I could have paid it when I returned back to work and they knew this. But I was never contacted and I was involved in my own wedding. Completely forgetting about something from the summer. If I would have received a call then I could have paid it back and had it done with. But I never did. Instead they built up all this drama and pour it to me at once.

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That is VERY wrong of them to be all childish and dramatic about this! They should act like adults and call you.

My fiance is like Eff them and take them out of the wedding. They did some crap at our engagement party which rubbed FH the wrong way and now with this I think he has had it with their drama.

I just don't understand. I've known them since I was 12 and they know I'm not that kind of person to ditch out on them. So to get something like this hurts. Maybe FH is right and I just take them out so its less drama I have to deal with.

man, this is really ridiculous. they treated you with very low expectations and should have just given you the benefit of the doubt and called you up like 'big girls' should. i'm sorry that you have to deal with all that drama. it's so wrong!

It's very pathetic to not be a mature adult about this whole thing. I mean it's $125... what are they planning on doing? Never talk to you again because you forgot about it? I don't see why you wouldn't ask for it again or discuss it. So stupid. Most people are just stupid if you ask me... stupid and immature. If you want to claim to be an adult than act like one and address issues when they arise. Don't cowardly back out and keep it low key by completely ignoring something. That just makes it worse. I swear some people are just lacking big time in the people skills area!

I would have contacted them 2 times.. if they don't respond after that I wouldn't have contacted them again. I'm not chasing someone down like that. If you are upset and I left myself available to speak to and you ignored me.. then go on ignorning me and I'll do it right back. ha ha.

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Posted by MrsGarcia

Well I messaged the other BM and she said she had nothing to do with what the other one said. Which I believe. So now its a matter of taking one out and leaving the other one in or taking both of them out just to relieve the headache. I just hate this crap.

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Are you picking out dresses and stuff now?

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Posted by KerriJohnS

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Posted by MrsGarcia

Well I messaged the other BM and she said she had nothing to do with what the other one said. Which I believe. So now its a matter of taking one out and leaving the other one in or taking both of them out just to relieve the headache. I just hate this crap.

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Are you picking out dresses and stuff now?

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well the dresses are picked out. And this started because I have been trying to get in touch with them for awhile now to let them know they have to get measured by the end of this month. This is what it turns into. The BM being a total wench and flipping balls over something from the summer . Instead of being an adult.

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Posted by MrsGarcia

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Posted by KerriJohnS

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Posted by MrsGarcia

Well I messaged the other BM and she said she had nothing to do with what the other one said. Which I believe. So now its a matter of taking one out and leaving the other one in or taking both of them out just to relieve the headache. I just hate this crap.

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Are you picking out dresses and stuff now?

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well the dresses are picked out. And this started because I have been trying to get in touch with them for awhile now to let them know they have to get measured by the end of this month. This is what it turns into. The BM being a total wench and flipping balls over something from the summer . Instead of being an adult.

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You know what? Let them go for the fittings. Have them pay for that and all... and if they can't get their act together then kick them out all together. Who needs friends like that anyway? Your FH is right! If they don't show up for the fittings then take it as they are just out.