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brideiam Posted:

living situation

hey guys,
just taking in the whole getting engaged process! what are u guys doing if you don't live with FH yet. i still live with my parents..I know we have 2 years to decide but im thinking about living at home until we get an apt. maybe a month before the wedding?? not sure how this will work?
FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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FH and I are just in the process of moving in together. Originally we didn't plan on moving in together for about another year but opportunity knocked and we took it!

When you're ready to move in do it, no rush!
vickyp0o1215 Posted:

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This is pretty much our game plan as well... living home we can save as much money as possible so its the best bet..

MrsHazel2B Posted:

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We already live together...you can really get to know a person once u live together!

sjr385 Posted:

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SeptemberBride2012 Posted:

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We basically are the same as FUTUREMSGTL--- We both live at home still to save up money but if an opportunity comes up in this market, we will definitely jump on it!

FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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Posted by sjr385


Posted by FutureMrsGTL

FH and I are just in the process of moving in together. Originally we didn't plan on moving in together for about another year but opportunity knocked and we took it!

When you're ready to move in do it, no rush!



How's that going? All done painting yet?



Its going good... definately a bit of an adjustment having him around allll the time!

and no unfortunately we are not done painting yet hopefully by this weekend!
FutureMcBride Posted:

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I personally think it's best to live together before the wedding. You learn things about each other that you NEVER would have thought about. When FH and I moved in together, at first I wanted to kill him. We really had our ups and downs at that point... obviously we grew accustomed to each other and are getting married now, but we moved in together 4 years ago.

I would be careful moving in 2 months before your wedding, with all of your wedding plans and stuff, you don't want to add the additional stress of moving!

It's a personal decision and everyone feels differently about it, this is just my personal opinion!! good luck!
Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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Posted by FutureMcBride

I personally think it's best to live together before the wedding. You learn things about each other that you NEVER would have thought about. When FH and I moved in together, at first I wanted to kill him. We really had our ups and downs at that point... obviously we grew accustomed to each other and are getting married now, but we moved in together 4 years ago.

I would be careful moving in 2 months before your wedding, with all of your wedding plans and stuff, you don't want to add the additional stress of moving!

It's a personal decision and everyone feels differently about it, this is just my personal opinion!! good luck!




I totally agree with her!!! FH & I were in the same situation when we first moved in together almost 4 years ago.. It was definetly an adjustment and I think if we would of moved in together now or closer to the wedding with all the stress of planning the wedding, it would of not been good. There is alot to get used to and alot to get to know about each other when you live together. But if you truly love each other it's worth the ride
Bee12 Posted:

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Posted by SeptemberBride2012

We basically are the same as FUTUREMSGTL--- We both live at home still to save up money but if an opportunity comes up in this market, we will definitely jump on it!



ditto
MrsHazel2B Posted:

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I think it's a personal choice depending on the circumstances. We love living together now, but in the beginning, it was awful! I wanted to kill him too! But we've grown so close now and I couldn't imagine us not being together every morning chatting about nothing! I love it!

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