LONG VENT

ok, so I have 4 BM and a MOH, my MOH is GREAT...one of my BM is not. (Mind you I was her MOH). she is not returning any phone calls to anyone not even me... my MOH has been having problems with her the whole time. Now with the shower and BP coming shes not sure if she is going to have the money for anything. Keep in mind she is a nurse and makes really good MOney. Now when she got married I went crazy for her. Her DH is my FH Best friend for 22 years. so I went above because of that. now I feel she isnt returning the favor for me. and she is S***ing on the other BM. My SIL who is a BM want to back out now because its going to cost her ALOT more money now to cover the BM who is slacking. Im so upset and hurt that she would act this way SORRY so long
Jenn

I completly understand where you are coming from. I was my cousin's MOH....she had 6 other BM's....3 were great, 3 were nightmares.
I ended up covering alot of extra costs because of problems the 3 nightmares caused.
When the 3 Great ones found out what had happened they each gave me a little more money, without me asking for it....even though they were all on tight budgets themselves. My cousin says now that if she knew then how much trouble they were causing she would have asked them not to be in the BP....and she would have asked 3 close friends instead.

I actually did ask a BM to drop out...she was causing alot of drama when we were ordering the dresses. I could see that it was turning ugly, and I didn't want to put my other BM who are so wonderful in financial binds. So I asked my step niece to be a Junior BM instead.

Is there anyone else that you would like to ask to take her place? Is that even an option?

That really stinks! I am sorry that she’s being like that. how convenient, now that her wedding is over and done with.

I could never do that to someone!