ok my fsil has a husband who treats her terrible. he never had a job and she used to work in fast food places like mcdonalds. they have 3 kids and my fmil and ffil took care of them for so long because of the kids, they would pay the rent and everything. well two years ago things between them got really bad and she left him. she was doing good, her parents sent her to medical billing school and paid the rent for a two bedroom apartment. me and fh helped her out so much, buying the kids christmas gifts, taking them out evrything. her parents also paid $4,500.00 so she could get a divorce from this guy. well, 3 weeks ago she called him up and told him she wanted him back. so now fil's aren't talking to fsil, and are not going to pay the rent anymore. fsil says her husband changed he got 2 jobs, there not going to have to worry about anything. well there has been so much fighting going on between her and her parents about all this. but she has always talked to me. well friday me and fh took her daughter to wildwood til monday and spent about a thousand dollars on this kid. today i go to my house and she lives right downstairs from my mother, and i go to see the kids and she won't let them near me. whenever the kids wanted to talk to me she kept telling them to get away from me. i'm so upset i can't believe it. after everything i did for her and her children, i dont know why she's doing this. she was so nasty to me, she was giving me dirty looks and ignoring me. i'm sorry, i just needed to tell someone, because i cant tell fh, he will go bannana's.
Sunny
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I am sorry! Whatever her situation, it is not right to keep the kids away from you, it is not fair to them! Hopefully she will come around, hang in there!
Diane
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Im so sorry that you are going through this. It is NOT fair at all to keep the kids away.
prncssrachel
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OMG! That's awful. Unfortunately for those kids, there's nothing you can do to change their mother. I don't understand why she was being nasty to you, but it seems as though this is a very selfish woman if you ask me. I also think that you SHOULD tell your FH. Although I am sure you don't want to cause him stress, it is his family, and he has the right to know. Just know that her children appreciate what you have done for them. I know they do. I have cousins in a similar situation and I try to spend as much quality time with them as I can, and I know it means a lot to them. I hope everything works out alright!
butterfly20
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I agree with rachael.. you really should tell your fiane this.. its definately not fair to keep the kids away
OctBride05
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i want to tell him, but i'm afraid he'll go over there and try to fight with fsil husband. this man has ruined this family with all the **** he's done, and i know fh would go crazy now that there keeping the kids away.
Jen2704
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Seriously, you can't keep that to yourself...that is not fair to you, your fh (when he finds out) and the kids. That is awful!!! Sorry to hear that you are going through this
jenny2penny
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That's terrible...why now does she not want them near you?
MSCJLK
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I am sorry to hear this but your FSIL sounds like she is not stable.. and to keep you away from the kids... the piece of crap ex husband might be not so nice things.. and playing with her head.. this does not sound normal...JMO
