Long Vent about FIL

Ok let me start by saying that my FILS ALWAYS FIGHT! they are constantly at each others throats. FMIL moved to FL. cause she says that she hates ny but FFIL still lives here. they are not divorced. She is back at home because we suggested they goto counseling. FFIL is having hip surgery and 2 days later she is going back to FL. she saYS OH MIKE (FH) can drive dad where he needs to go URE HIS WIFE HELLO!!!!! When FSIL got married they went through her FH entire guest list and said this person doesnt need to come. We got there guest list and FH and I have no idea who like 90% of the people they are inviting are but we cut out some of our friends so their friends could come! Yhey said they would pay for our honeymoon we were talking about hawaii no when we said we might want to go somewhere else they say no we agreed to pay for Hawaii! They wont pay for anything for the wedding because 'they already married their daughter they are done' They paid for the party! FH baxically hates his mom cause he heard her say I only married him (dad) cause i knew hed be a good provider for our kids!!! Today FSIL said 'ure not puting their names on the invites right?' I said ya why? she said When I got married they wouldnt let me put jim
(FBIL) dads name on the invite cause he didnt pay for anything! I dont know what to do. We wanted to have a hawaiian Laui (SP?) for our RH dinner at their house cause my aunts and Out of towners always go to the RH dinner they said fine. I know they are to cheap after hearing the wedding story to have it at a restaurant with all those people. FSIL told me that last night FFIL said we should have RD at a place cause we have to clean up and I dont want people staying at the house all hours of the night. IM SO MAD theres so much more I can write right now . Thanks for reading my rambling!!!! love ya guys!

wow.. drama..
Thank god your FH understands and supports you. Its also great you hava FSIL who feels for you too.

Poor thing!
HUGS