How often do you fight with FH and what do you fight about the most (money, career, etc)?
*Fight is such a harsh word, let's say disagree :)
MSeed
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I do not fight with FH often but it isn't a rare occurence either. Mostly about money...there is some etc. that we fight about also.
dannisayz
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Not often, but when we do, it's about is mother mostly.
2007 Crescent Bride
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We don't argue often at all. We are having a lot of family problems right now (thanks to his lovely family) but we always support each other. If we do argue, it's because when times get rough, he holds everything in and then I nag him to find out what is wrong but I don't think that's an arguement.
CD516
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All the time. And about anything Thats just us.
roan126
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We rarely argue, but when we do its almost always about money.
ant090608
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We fight often about the house and money issues. He says that I panic too much and I think he doesn't panic at all!
roan126
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Posted by ant090608
We fight often about the house and money issues. He says that I panic too much and I think he doesn't panic at all!
OMG you just described us exactly! I think he doesnt worry enough, and he thinks I worry too much!
Browneyesncute
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When we argue is about something stupid like him going somewhere or getting him to do something
ant090608
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Posted by ant090608
We fight often about the house and money issues. He says that I panic too much and I think he doesn't panic at all!
OMG you just described us exactly! I think he doesnt worry enough, and he thinks I worry too much!
Yeah, we start off ok but then his laid back attitude makes me get more nervouse and that is how it escalates.
Future Mulligan
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we argue if one of us is in a bad mood - its never over a topic - its just if one of us is really cranky we call eachother out on it
roan126
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Posted by ant090608
We fight often about the house and money issues. He says that I panic too much and I think he doesn't panic at all!
OMG you just described us exactly! I think he doesnt worry enough, and he thinks I worry too much!
Yeah, we start off ok but then his laid back attitude makes me get more nervouse and that is how it escalates.
Yup, exactly. There has got to be a happy medium somewhere.
Bride908
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we dont normally fight over the same topic but as laid back as I am I try to plan for everything and he is soooo not like that and thats where the bickering will start
ant090608
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Posted by roan126
Posted by ant090608
We fight often about the house and money issues. He says that I panic too much and I think he doesn't panic at all!
OMG you just described us exactly! I think he doesnt worry enough, and he thinks I worry too much!
Yeah, we start off ok but then his laid back attitude makes me get more nervouse and that is how it escalates.
Yup, exactly. There has got to be a happy medium somewhere.
Yes there is just walk away!
jessnstu08
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we fight occasionally about money - that is the one thing he worries about , and that is the one thing i DON'T worry about. I keep telling him we will have alot more after the wedding just because it will be over
KKPK1004
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Our biggest argument starter is not comprehending or understanding what we say to each other.
When I speak to my future husband and I don't feel he gets what I am saying I reiterate by breaking down what I said and he thinks I am condescending; but if I do not do that he completely misses what I need or want to happen.
I am impatient and he hates that. He has no patience for my impatience, so we are two peas in a pod for that convo.
I know I am guilty of this, I don't know how many of you are, when I say I want to get something done I have to set up a time frame with FH, because if I don't he will do it at his leisure and it could be done by Christmas, but done all the same to him.
= )
Joette_Terese
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We get into little arguments here and there - right now it's about decorating the house.
KKPK1004
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Posted by Future Mulligan
we argue if one of us is in a bad mood - its never over a topic - its just if one of us is really cranky we call eachother out on it
That is true for us as well, and if we call each other on it it makes it better most of the time.
roan126
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we fight occasionally about money - that is the one thing he worries about , and that is the one thing i DON'T worry about. I keep telling him we will have alot more after the wedding just because it will be over
So funny...we are SO opposite!
DeeluvsVinny
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Posted by Future Mulligan
we argue if one of us is in a bad mood - its never over a topic - its just if one of us is really cranky we call eachother out on it
That's us to! We rarely argue- but when we do its because some is cranky. And when he calls me a crankypants..i get even more cranky!
